LadyWench
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Let me start off by saying that I suffer from a few different things. My main problems, however, are obsessive-compulsive disorder with hypochondria and panic disorder. One always leads to the other. If I'm worrying about my health, it's almost guaranteed I will have a panic attack. I always obsess about my health. I've done this for as long as I can remember. I live with my mother and boyfriend. Basically anytime I start freaking out over health issues and it leads to anxiety, they get mad. I'll elaborate:
I realize that living with someone that has these problems can be frustrating. I understand that knowing you can't really do anything to help or fix it, can be rather irritating. I get all of that. I think at this point, though, they are just excuses. Whenever I start worrying and having a panic attack, my mom will get mad. She will walk off with an attitude and not listen to me. It's like she doesn't even want to be around me when I'm scared. It's as if I'm annoying her and in the way. She makes me feel like life would be easier for her and others if I simply didn't exist.
My boyfriend acts the same way. He didn't used to. He used to be very supportive of my panic attacks and would do his best to help. Not anymore, though. I think he's grown used to it. Like the other day, for example. I was afraid that I was going to cough up blood (long story). I stood over the sink and kept forcing myself to cough, to see if it would happen. At one point, I swore I saw two spots of red in my saliva. I started freaking out, and he said "f*ck this" and walked away. I started crying and freaking out because I was so scared. I didn't know what to do. I had to beg for him to come back into the bathroom and help me. I ended up being fine and nothing was wrong with me physically. It's just a weird fear I have and I've been sick lately with an upper respiratory thing. He came back to the bathroom and was nicer and stuff. I think he felt bad for the way he reacted. That doesn't matter, though. It really hurt me. My mom hurts me when she acts like that, too.
I guess I'm just wondering if anyone else deals with this sort of thing? Are there people that become mad and/or frustrated with you for having anxiety? It's just difficult for me to comprehend all of this. It's as if they think I can control it or am doing it on purpose or something.
Thanks for reading. I'm sorry this is so long and lame.
I realize that living with someone that has these problems can be frustrating. I understand that knowing you can't really do anything to help or fix it, can be rather irritating. I get all of that. I think at this point, though, they are just excuses. Whenever I start worrying and having a panic attack, my mom will get mad. She will walk off with an attitude and not listen to me. It's like she doesn't even want to be around me when I'm scared. It's as if I'm annoying her and in the way. She makes me feel like life would be easier for her and others if I simply didn't exist.
My boyfriend acts the same way. He didn't used to. He used to be very supportive of my panic attacks and would do his best to help. Not anymore, though. I think he's grown used to it. Like the other day, for example. I was afraid that I was going to cough up blood (long story). I stood over the sink and kept forcing myself to cough, to see if it would happen. At one point, I swore I saw two spots of red in my saliva. I started freaking out, and he said "f*ck this" and walked away. I started crying and freaking out because I was so scared. I didn't know what to do. I had to beg for him to come back into the bathroom and help me. I ended up being fine and nothing was wrong with me physically. It's just a weird fear I have and I've been sick lately with an upper respiratory thing. He came back to the bathroom and was nicer and stuff. I think he felt bad for the way he reacted. That doesn't matter, though. It really hurt me. My mom hurts me when she acts like that, too.
I guess I'm just wondering if anyone else deals with this sort of thing? Are there people that become mad and/or frustrated with you for having anxiety? It's just difficult for me to comprehend all of this. It's as if they think I can control it or am doing it on purpose or something.
Thanks for reading. I'm sorry this is so long and lame.