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MikeyC

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Hehehehe, I know! She wasn't too keen on going to Iceland in the first place. Me and her always go somewhere every few years or so and that time it was my turn to choose the place. My mom wanted to go to Vegas because I had never been there but nooooooooo way, I'm going somewhere completely different and we both ended up having a great time! It's her turn next and she picked Greece which I can definitely handle.
That's great that the two of you get to share exotic locations together. :) I'm sure Iceland would be fantastic. I would be keen on going there one day myself.

Greece is meant to be pretty wild despite the economic collapse happening there so I'm sure you'll have a rad time!
 

lonely_drummer

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That's great that the two of you get to share exotic locations together. :) I'm sure Iceland would be fantastic. I would be keen on going there one day myself.

Greece is meant to be pretty wild despite the economic collapse happening there so I'm sure you'll have a rad time!

Yeah I like the fact we both like to travel. I highly recommend Iceland, it's such an interesting culture, the people are super friendly and the country is just beautiful. A little pricey but totally worth it!!! I really hope I am lucky enough to visit Iceland again someday.
 

MikeyC

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Yeah I like the fact we both like to travel. I highly recommend Iceland, it's such an interesting culture, the people are super friendly and the country is just beautiful. A little pricey but totally worth it!!! I really hope I am lucky enough to visit Iceland again someday.
I would imagine Iceland would be very unique because of its isolation and that's one of the reasons I would enjoy visiting there. :) Pricey doesn't matter if you're having fun.
 

lonely_drummer

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Hey everyone!! I been missing my two best buddies today. I been listening to a lot of our jams we recorded for our album for when they get back. You're in for a treat, here is one of our last jams before the drummer and bass player drove down to mexico. This is all improv, we're just feeling it out and really working the jam vibes real well, this is one of my favourite jams. My bro Eric is drumming, Seans playing bass, Ryan is on keys(he's the amateur but is really catching on quickly) and I am playing guitar. Funny how the quietest guy in the band is playing the loudest, drowning out the others some times, so I just made them all get louder equipment because I am NOT turning down lol. Great sound for just using 2 mics, could be 3 actually.

SBM Jam by Dr. Guzzlegore on SoundCloud - Create, record and share your sounds for free
 

lonely_drummer

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Hey. Wow its been too long since I updated this. Im slacking, well I was just really sick the last few weeks and nothing was really going on so I didn't really have anything to share with ya'll. I just wanted to share some really really old songs I had just found. I went on my old myspace and forgot about all these songs I was recording by myself in my basement like 5 or 6 years ago. It's interesting because that's when I was really playing a lot of metal and just super loud music. This was before I met any of my current bandmates or even got into the local scene. I am playing all instruments, drums, bass and both guitars. It's interesting listening to them because I can hear how much I sucked at drums then compared to now lol. These recordings are far from perfect so please don't judge, I cringe every time I hear myself messing up, which happens ALOT lol. So here's the link to these songs, in my opinion, The Bluee Rupture, The Conductor and Walk Away are probably the best ones. Don't Rattle the Snake is alright too. Enjoy!

Cody Leitenberger's Songs | All Songs | Listen Free and Download
 

lonely_drummer

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I'm feeling strange. Earlier today my mom called me saying, guess who I just had lunch with? Thinking it was someone famous, turns out it was with my one and only ex girlfriend. I was pretty shocked to hear this considering I haven't seen or talked to her in about 3 years. But my mom is insanely nosey and really liked her too so I knew it would have been a matter of time till she tried to get in touch with her. I guess shes working to become a paramedic and doing well which is good to hear. I guess she went and gave my mom her phone number to give to me to call her sometime but I really don't know what to think or do. It would be nice to catch up and see how she's doing but I'm afraid too. It has taken me a really long time to get over her and don't want those feelings coming back. It could also be a chance to see how different we are from eachother and give me closure but I don't know. I still don't think I could handle it. Why am I a coward?
 

Shyangel

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I'm feeling strange. Earlier today my mom called me saying, guess who I just had lunch with? Thinking it was someone famous, turns out it was with my one and only ex girlfriend. I was pretty shocked to hear this considering I haven't seen or talked to her in about 3 years. But my mom is insanely nosey and really liked her too so I knew it would have been a matter of time till she tried to get in touch with her. I guess shes working to become a paramedic and doing well which is good to hear. I guess she went and gave my mom her phone number to give to me to call her sometime but I really don't know what to think or do. It would be nice to catch up and see how she's doing but I'm afraid too. It has taken me a really long time to get over her and don't want those feelings coming back. It could also be a chance to see how different we are from eachother and give me closure but I don't know. I still don't think I could handle it. Why am I a coward?

Wow, that's a potentially painful shock. Once a relationship is buried, it's usually best for it to stay that way. No need to resurface past pain. I think that's kinda wrong your mom did that, personally...I think you should do whatever you feel is the right option. It might give you closure as you said. It all very well could be pain less. I hope the call provides you with the answers you want, if you choose make the call.
 

MikeyC

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It's up to you what you choose to do, drummer. You got the number, so the ball is in your court. If you deem it too painful, don't call.
 

lonely_drummer

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Wow, that's a potentially painful shock. Once a relationship is buried, it's usually best for it to stay that way. No need to resurface past pain. I think that's kinda wrong your mom did that, personally...I think you should do whatever you feel is the right option. It might give you closure as you said. It all very well could be pain less. I hope the call provides you with the answers you want, if you choose make the call.

Yeah I agree with you. The relationship is done, it has been for quite a while so why? I think it would be best to avoid her. We obviously moved on so really why bother? And yeah I also don't think it was right for my mom to butt in however if you knew her you would know that she does whatever she pleases without anyone else's regard. But I'm used to it so I won't let that bother me. No point on getting into an argument that will end up nowhere and over someone who isn't a part of my life anyhow. Best to avoid, I don't need closure, we broke up and that's that, people change and that's just what we did.
 

lonely_drummer

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Well...at least I wasn't the only one thinking that. Can you talk to your mum about that?

Ummmmm probably not a good idea. U can't talk to her about those sort of things. She's right no matter what and me and the folks have slowly been patching things up lately and just keeping the peace for now. I don't wanna jeopardize that over some girl I broke up with 4 years ago
 

Shyangel

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Yeah I agree with you. The relationship is done, it has been for quite a while so why? I think it would be best to avoid her. We obviously moved on so really why bother? And yeah I also don't think it was right for my mom to butt in however if you knew her you would know that she does whatever she pleases without anyone else's regard. But I'm used to it so I won't let that bother me. No point on getting into an argument that will end up nowhere and over someone who isn't a part of my life anyhow. Best to avoid, I don't need closure, we broke up and that's that, people change and that's just what we did.

I don't want to alter your opinion or course of action. Please do whatever you feel. Do what will give you the best chance of moving on painlessly. Your gut will know the best option. That's messed up. I'm truly sorry you have to deal with someone like that; your mother no less. Yeah, do spare yourself the energy if you've learned it's a pointless fight.

I wishing you the best, Drummer.:)
 

MikeyC

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Ummmmm probably not a good idea. U can't talk to her about those sort of things. She's right no matter what and me and the folks have slowly been patching things up lately and just keeping the peace for now. I don't wanna jeopardize that over some girl I broke up with 4 years ago
Fair enough.

Also listen to Angel.
 

lonely_drummer

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Fair enough.

Also listen to Angel.

I don't want to alter your opinion or course of action. Please do whatever you feel. Do what will give you the best chance of moving on painlessly. Your gut will know the best option. That's messed up. I'm truly sorry you have to deal with someone like that; your mother no less. Yeah, do spare yourself the energy if you've learned it's a pointless fight.

I wishing you the best, Drummer.:)

Don't worry angel you aren't making up my mind for me. You didn't need to say much, it just helped me listen to my gut better. I'm definitely not ready for it, well I just don't see much point in it. Closure? Wtf is that? Lol. We broke up, that's that!
 

lonely_drummer

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Hey everyone!! Hope you are all doing well. Im doing good. The whole thing with my ex has come and gone lol. I did call her because I figured that would be rude if I didn't. It was alright chatting, it was just nice to know that she's doing well because when we dated she went through bouts of depression. So yeah, I made sure that it just stayed at that call, she wanted to meet up for dinner but I refused in the nicest way possible.

On another note, Im challenging myself(influenced by Iluv) this week by staying away from junk food and no drinking. I figured its Spring time, time for rebirth so why not follow what nature is doing. Im staying positive!

So, on a negative note, my household has been a little tense this week. One of my roommates was caught drinking and driving last weekend and lost his license and whatnot. He's kind of in a state of feeling sorry for himself but in all reality he did this to himself. I don't agree with any sort of drinking and driving whatsoever but him and another roommate feel like he's getting screwed over. Like come on!!! I don't know how much longer I can hold my tongue because a few years ago I was a victim of a drunk driving accident and Im still paying for it and that was almost 5 years ago. I love to drink, maybe a little too much but I know not to get behind that wheel. I won't even get behind the wheel the day after heavy drinking. I just hope that this year of not having his license will kick some sense into him. But I don't get it, he's all like, "ahh if I just drove a different way" or "I blew just over the limit, it sucks so much!" but the fact that he could have killed someone that night has yet to cross his mind. I don't get it.
 

MikeyC

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So, on a negative note, my household has been a little tense this week. One of my roommates was caught drinking and driving last weekend and lost his license and whatnot. He's kind of in a state of feeling sorry for himself but in all reality he did this to himself. I don't agree with any sort of drinking and driving whatsoever but him and another roommate feel like he's getting screwed over. Like come on!!! I don't know how much longer I can hold my tongue because a few years ago I was a victim of a drunk driving accident and Im still paying for it and that was almost 5 years ago. I love to drink, maybe a little too much but I know not to get behind that wheel. I won't even get behind the wheel the day after heavy drinking. I just hope that this year of not having his license will kick some sense into him. But I don't get it, he's all like, "ahh if I just drove a different way" or "I blew just over the limit, it sucks so much!" but the fact that he could have killed someone that night has yet to cross his mind. I don't get it.
I have known a lot of people who get behind the wheel and take their chances on the road when they know they're over the limit. Even I have done that. Very nearly got caught once, too. I'm not proud of it but I have done the same as your roommate, except I've never been caught.

As much as he whinges and complains, he has to cop the penalty, so take that as a victory for you.
 

lonely_drummer

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Hey y'all!! Well I just got back from my little trip out east, visiting an old friend and have to say I had a pretty good time, maybe too good lol. Me and my friends girlfriend went halfers on a plane ticket to get me out there to surprise him for his birthday. He totally thought they were picking a relative up at the airport but when I came out he just lost it, it was so funny!!!! So yeah I had a really good time, it was a nice change of pace but like any trip, coming home is always one of the best parts. So I got up super early yesterday and flew back home. My mom picked me up because we had tickets for the Blueman Group. I was so worried I'd fall asleep during the show because I was so tired but that was impossible. It was the greatest thing EVER! I can't remember how long I've wanted to see these guys but just never had the chance. And watching the youtube videos doesn't do any justice whatsoever for this group. The backing percussionists were absolutely amazing. Plus my mom loved it too!!

That was the good to my super busy day, however there is always a low point to a day and I sure had one. When my mom picked me up, she kept saying that a collection agency kept calling their house, asking for me, saying I owed them a few hundred dollars from a really old cell phone contract I cancelled two years ago. So, I was pretty confused and really not looking forward to looking into this(I have a huge fear of talking on the phone). So I went off to the actual mobility store where I used to have a contract to see what I can do. So I got there and a really nice lady just told me to call back to the collectors and figure it out there. So I went all the way back to my parents house to get the phone number. Got there, called and they tell me to deal with the cell phone company and provided me with some fancy numbers to identity my account. So, I hop in the car and go back to the cellphone store. Thinking Ive got all the information I needed, I soon find out that one of the fancy numbers they gave me was WRONG! Arrrrg, so Im already getting annoyed by this but still keeping my smiling mask on to not cause any confrontation. So, I go back to my parents place, call the collectors again and get the new and improved fancy number. So, I go back to the cell store and she just dials a number and quickly gives me the phone when someone answers, GREEAT just what I hate!!! I have so much trouble doing these things, I always have to sit there for 10 mins with the phone in my hand just getting psyched up to press dial. So I froze at first and the person on the other line thought no one was there. Soon I piped up and said what I needed to say in my shaky and weak voice. Then the bull**** continues. "Oh, just let me transfer you to so and so" is what I kept hearing. Once I started talking to the 4th representative I started feeling the steam coming out of my ears. And right when she said again, let me just transfer you to so and so. I just flipped out and slammed the phone down, scaring the lady behind the desk. She asked what was wrong and I just started losing it. I just started screaming at her in the middle of the store with tons of people around. She was terrified, I could see it. She kept saying, "Sir i understand that you are frustrated right now" which just pissed me off even more. Finally she called everyone herself and personally dealt with it and I got those few hundred dollars taken off and got the collectors off my ass. But by the time I was done in there, people were starring and security had stopped by to escort me out of the mall lol. I guess being a sketchy nervous breakdown on legs can really benefit me in these situations where I just have to turn on the psycho button and things happen lol. But I did and still do feel really bad for the lady at the store. She didn't do anything to deserve that, she was just helping me. It was the people on the other line that kept pushing me. Maybe I should go into that store and apologize to her. Because that is totally not like me, I don't freak out at people, Im the peace guy who wants us all to get along. Maybe it was the flying and waking up super early and I was just grumpy or something.
 

MikeyC

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Apologizing to the lady is not a bad idea, actually. You know it was not you there and you probably freaked her out. Like you I really hate talking on the phone so I understand your frustration there.
 
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