chrisjurban
Well-known member
I can't seem to think of anything to say to people! I have no idea how to create a new topic in conversation! Even online, I avoid talking to other people because I can't think of what to say. I just don't know.
The things I do say end up sounding weird and stiff because I take a long time to think out exactly what I can say. More often than not I just completely ignore what people have said to me (in text or online message form) because I can't think of anything at all to say. I only seem able to talk when there is a direct purpose behind it (e.g. "Where is the milk?"), when there is a concrete or direct response I can make to what someone has said (e.g. "What instrument do you play?" "Guitar."), or when what I'm saying is a logical extension of what has just been said (e.g. "I go to the pool a lot." "Oh, so you like going there?").
What is the root cause of this? What do you do to get past it?
The things I do say end up sounding weird and stiff because I take a long time to think out exactly what I can say. More often than not I just completely ignore what people have said to me (in text or online message form) because I can't think of anything at all to say. I only seem able to talk when there is a direct purpose behind it (e.g. "Where is the milk?"), when there is a concrete or direct response I can make to what someone has said (e.g. "What instrument do you play?" "Guitar."), or when what I'm saying is a logical extension of what has just been said (e.g. "I go to the pool a lot." "Oh, so you like going there?").
What is the root cause of this? What do you do to get past it?