Do you want to fall in love?
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PhantomPod
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Yeah, I long to fall in love and have it be a mutual feeling.
lonely_drummer
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hmmmm, tough question. I have fallen in love once, while also being loved back. It's an amazing feeling but then it makes you extremely vulnerable at the same time. Trusting and loving this person so much that you basically give your heart away for someone else to hold onto. I don't quite feel right saying that I want to fall in love, I don't want any of that. I find that in my life, if I concentrate on something that I want so badly, my wants usually turns into impossibilities as I am always on the lookout trying so hard to find what I want yet it never shows its face. This has happened to me so much in my life that I've decided to stop searching for any of it. I have decided to just let this life take me where it plans on taking me. Stop searching, and just start watching and then learning from what I see. So if I sit here searching for the one to fall in love with, I will simply go mad, so I will just watch and maybe one day love will find me.
Danfalc
Banned
In an ideal world yeah,there is nothing more I could wan't to be In a loving relationship.But more often than not as beautiful as love can be,it come's with it's own set of problems or pain.I also have a habit of falling for people too quick and hard which can suck if they don't feel the same way.I wish I could lock my feelings away sometimes but that's easier said than done when you meet someone who takes your breath away :
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KiaKaha
Banned
Yes I would. I have always had this vision of a girl who knew and trusted me with her head in my lap. She would be asleep and I would brush her hair behind her ear... and all that mushy crap.
I dont know if it is ever going to happen, I thought it might of a couple of times, but it didnt. Seeing as its near impossible to relate to any human being on the planet or invoke any kind of interest from another person.. I would say the chances of it happening are close to nil...but I still hope....the cynicism has not won...yet.
I dont know if it is ever going to happen, I thought it might of a couple of times, but it didnt. Seeing as its near impossible to relate to any human being on the planet or invoke any kind of interest from another person.. I would say the chances of it happening are close to nil...but I still hope....the cynicism has not won...yet.
agoraphobickatie
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i do want to fall in love, lol.. i feel like it's that point in my life (?? haha) ..i don't know, i hear all those fun love songs and think "man, i want to have a good reason to like this song" lmao
Solitudes_Grace
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I think about these sorts of things very often, but I prefer to use the words "companionship" or "deep friendship" rather than the word "love." I doubt it will ever happen though; I am just unable to connect with people on any intimate level.
kihira
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This is so, so true and affirming in that to have a relationship you must be able to cope without the other if/when it ends through separation or death. I've had to adopt this frame of mind ever since my marriage nearly ended. The despair was so unbelievable that I vowed I would never let myself feel like that again.
Maybe for a normal person who doesn't suffer from painful shyness.
I found I needed to look high and low and then ,once I attained it, fight for it.
Malady is not wrong though. Just this Rumi fella is different than I. Probably dead too.
Good Morning
I think he died in 1270 something
Really. Sounds very interesting. I have never had someones writing change me so much. He must be enchanting.
Dont mind me much tonight. My head is racing from thought to thought like a mad bull. Its my hypo-mania. I like it the feeling but it is way to much.
Dronee
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I think he died in 1270 something
I've heard of the person, but I don't know him well beyond that he's one of the greatest poets in history. I always had the impression that his poetry wasn't in English though. Or is it? What language is his poetry written in?