Do you hate seeing yourself in photos?

WishingICould

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I swear, i look in the mirror and i'm ok but if i take a picture of myself i see all these flaws and i feel hideous! :sad: When people have complemented my pictures on Facebook i feel like saying "are you blind?!". All i do is pick out my flaws. Currently i'm convinced my face is asymmetrical. ::eek::
 

ImNotMyIllness

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I REFUSE to take pictures. I don't need to be reminded how ugly I am. When family members or friends ask to take a picture, I say no and walk away as fast as I can. They just don't seem to understand.
 

JuiceB

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I REFUSE to take pictures. I don't need to be reminded how ugly I am. When family members or friends ask to take a picture, I say no and walk away as fast as I can. They just don't seem to understand.

I'm the same way. It's a major problem when my mom pulls out her old photo album. If I ever get my hands on that thing I'll burn it, I swear!
 

Ithior

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There was a time when I hated when people took pictures of me. Now I just don't like it when I notice they're taking a picture of me and take like 15 seconds to do it. When that happens I try to keep the same expression that I had before I noticed the camera, then I try to fake it and eventually just avoid the picture because I can't keep a fake expression on my face. I still pretend I only noticed the camera after trying to fake it though.
 

Lamb

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I personally think I look better in real life than how I appear in camera lens. Alot of people share that experience, and also have to take a ton of photos before getting maybe 5 good ones.
 

PGT

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Just joined a dating site I must have took 100s of photos to try and find a good one. First one nose to pointed, second ears too big. Well you get the picture. Never did find one I was happy with so I just used the first one. Most people are not 100% happy with the way they look but hey what can you do about it.
 

WishingICould

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I've been called "hot" before and that just freaked me out. :eek: I mean, i know people see you differently to how you see yourself but i hate how i look. I guess i should like how i look. I'm quite tall, slim, but i just hate everything about my appearance. It doesn't matter how many people tell me i'm attractive i've just convinced myself they're lying. I also can't pose to save my life. I can't smile naturally if there's a camera in my face so i always either end up looking sad or weird. Sometimes if i change my profile picture on Facebook and nobody "likes" it i'll delete it because i'm convinced that must mean i am hideous.
 
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ImNotMyIllness

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I've been called "hot" before and that just freaked me out. :eek: I mean, i know people see you differently to how you see yourself but i hate how i look. I guess i should like how i look. I'm quite tall, slim, but i just hate everything about my appearance. It doesn't matter how many people tell me i'm attractive i've just convinced myself they're lying. I also can't pose to save my life. I can't smile naturally if there's a camera in my face so i always either end up looking sad or weird. Sometimes if i change my profile picture on Facebook and nobody "likes" it i'll delete it because i'm convinced that must mean i am hideous.

I smile a lot. But, I can't do it in front of a camera. Also, I get distracted and don't like people around when the picture is being taken. I think they're looking at me. I also have trouble knowing where to look. I feel cross eyed when I look straight into the camera. I hate it!
 

hexagon_sun

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I think sometimes people can't reconcile how they feel with the way other people actually perceive them. Being depressed paints everything with a negative hue; even self-image.
 

Dennis1980

Active member
I can look at my myself in pictures, but I don't like any of them. I don't think I photograph well.
Probably why I only have like 3 photos of myself on facebook.
 

razzle dazzle rose

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YES! You know what has made my life easier? Not taking pictures! It may seem sad, but I have a greater peace of mind now that I avoid the camera. It is just better for me. I understand it is not realistic to avoid taking pictures forever, but for now it is working. Posing for the camera is just soooo awkward. Some people are so natural...practice? I either smile too big or not big enough, grrr. And I don't know what to do with my arms! Such a stressful situation. Better to avoid avoid!
 

christa

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Yep! Always have. I thought it was about time I took a photo of myself for a default pic on Facebook. I tried to take one of those mirror photos with my phone yesterday. I looked ****ing awful. I hate how i look
 

squidgee

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This reminds of the time when photographers came to my school to take student portraits. They took a photo of me and I later realised I had a bit of dried toothpaste on the side of my cheek. I can't believe they didn't tell me before they took the shot.

Seeing myself in photos where I'm engaged in some sort of activity like drawing or something isn't so bad though.
 

Rose_Red

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I haven't taken a photo of myself for approximately two years because I dislike my appearance.
Normally I look ghastly in photos and look different from what I see in the reflection of my mirror. Sometime with the right angles and the right lighting I am able to look okay in photos, but that's not very often.
 

mikebird

Banned
I luv it!! :D

Roots in physics and photography, which was strictly not on the options at GCSE or A-level... although there was art, paint, music...

My favourite physics teacher offered it. He showed me how to use the darkroom. He cut us a roll of B&W film each. I got a decent SLR camera from my parents, and got right into the details of lenses, shutter, aperture, field of view... teacher is dead, from his excursions to the poles, researching the ozone layer - the cold damaged his arm. My IT master (biologist) died. My housemaster died from his suicide running about on a motorway, because his wife left him

I have ancient photos of schoolmates. I got poses out of 'em, acting with smoking in the bike sheds, and play fighting with hockey sticks. Not enough. Due to SA!

Got some colour done. Night traffic lights long time smears on a hill with a tripod in a layby, when I was 14.

I was the first to buy a digital in the '90s and 2000s. Holidays after graduation were film ones... on CD

Managed a quality DSLR while on my last earning job. My collection: 5,208

Mum liked photoing me. Ignoring all the above, I know the value of recording images. I've never done video / sound yet. I hated phone cameras immediately. :thumbdown:

There are no proper lenses on a baby fone. Pinhole crap. Ignore mega wegga pixels. Get some glass. Worth the effort - persuading people to pose, and the fear of having the machine knicked or smashed when I point it at people.

10 mp is all you ever need, unless one day you want to print images the size of the Atlantic Ocean, or a 60" screen / projector at home. My little 2 mp compact cam was more than enough to view fullscreen now. Plugged straight into TV in 2002

I try not to get into the pics too much. It's all for age 90-100..? :crying:
 
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miserablecow

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I personally think I look better in real life than how I appear in camera lens. Alot of people share that experience, and also have to take a ton of photos before getting maybe 5 good ones.

I'm the same...I'm trying to take pics of myself sometimes, to try and used to having my picture taken. I now don't mind it as much, even though I don't think I look great. I have just accepted the fact I'm generally not a photogentic person, regardless of my pictures on here and posting it in the picture thread. I also think that we see the worst in ourselves, but others don't.
 

Starry

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Yes, I hate seeing myself in photographs... I can look at the image straight after I've taken it, but after that I just refuse... If I post a picture on here or FaceBook I will not look at it, I just scroll down as fast as possible and avert my eyes. If I accidentally hover the cursor over my small profile picture on FB and it suddenly enlarges I've been known to utter a cry of dismay whilst quickly averting my gaze and moving the cursor...

Also, I take hundreds of pictures just trying to find one or two that I'm happy with (Okay, not literally hundreds, it's usually around 30 or 40).

I also can't look in mirrors though... However, on the very rare occasions that I do, I usually think I look better there than in photographs.
 

WishingICould

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When i've posted pictures on Facebook and someone has said "wow, you're so photogenic". I think they must be either blind or high.
 
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