Do you guys appologize to your ex?

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gregoryr

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I have had anxiety, depression, a bit of depersonalization for quite sometime. I was on meds 2009-2010 but stopped and it has gradually gotten worse. Most of my romantic relationships since then have been quite a bit of bickering and misunderstandings involved. I over think things so much and are overly emotional. The woman I dated broke things off a few months back. Too much bickering and not romantically interested anymore it hurts but I guess It all makes since.
I'm not a bad guy and most females want to remain cordial and in contact. Seeing how I know I have a problem that started before her or many females in the past...

My question is do you guys ever apologize or at least man/woman up to your ex that you know your behavior was, stand offish, unaffectionate.... (considering if you still have contact with them )
 
JohnnAY

JohnnAY

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Yea, I've called my ex before and apologized for certain things. Unfortunately, it's only in retrospect when you realize you were in the wrong.
 
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gregoryr

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Yeah same here I know I was wrong in my reactions on a few equations. I'm thinking to call her and tell her, I realized and conscious of my behavior.
 
Odo

Odo

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No.

I'm pretty sure that whatever happened at the time is a non-issue at the moment, and it's pointless to stir things up again. I think it's implied that we're different people now... and if it isn't, I don't want to know. I really don't think I've ever done something so unforgivably hurtful that I would ever need to apologize or feel guilty about it.
 
DepravedFurball

DepravedFurball

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I apologized for my poor behaviour shortly after I realized I was being an a*se in the first place. That's how you get make-up sex, after all.
 
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Silatuyok

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gregoryr said:
Yeah same here I know I was wrong in my reactions on a few equations. I'm thinking to call her and tell her, I realized and conscious of my behavior.
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If it's only been a few months, then I think it'd be fine to call her and tell her. Just don't go into it with any expectations.
 
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jc972

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Apologies mean you've done wrong. No, I wouldn't do it. So you weren't right for her? It ain't your fault or her fault I don't reckon, it just wasn't meant to be is all.
 
Remus

Remus

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Nope, I'm not the one who should be doing the apologising considering the mental and physical abuse I endured. I did get a half arsed apology off them years later but it didn't seem so sincere.
 
skins

skins

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just today i drove past an ex, and instead of offering to give them a lift, I gave them the ol' one finger salute as i drove by......i know its a mean thing to do, but in the very short time we dated she managed to ruin a very good friendship i had with someone and then broke up with me a day later, and it hurt me bigtime.
 
surewhynot

surewhynot

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skins said:
just today i drove past an ex, and instead of offering to give them a lift, I gave them the ol' one finger salute as i drove by......i know its a mean thing to do, but in the very short time we dated she managed to ruin a very good friendship i had with someone and then broke up with me a day later, and it hurt me bigtime.
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You should take the high road, not sink at her level. You trying to hurt that person makes you no better than her.
 
Geo

Geo

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Well, in a fit of blind anger, right after the break up,I told my ex off over text because of how apathetic she was before and after the break up. I didn't need to apologize, but I did because I wanted to remain the bigger person.
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

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If my ex wanted to talk to me, I would definitely apologise. I am still sorry after a few years for having her put up with me.
 
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