I don't enjoy complaining. I know people who complain all the time, and they often look ridiculous doing it, and I realise just how ridiculous I might look when complaining.
I also think complaining, is like a denial in a way. So, I have no friends, no respect from my peers and I feel lonely. What good am I doing by complaining? All I am doing is reaffirming that and denying any individual accountability.
I have found through life, that no matter which groups I join, I am always excluded and I use to complain that it was the groups fault that I was excluded. I contined to believe that, taking no personal accountability, and the same happened in every other group.
This tells me, there is actually something lacking in me, something I need to work on. It is really hard to accept, but in a way I am now feeling a little more empowered, because I alone can change the situation and it no longer depends on others.
So I try not to complain, though it is easy to do, I try to accept the moment as it is and resolve to improve it. - Yeah I know, easier said than done.