Do you Enjoy Complaining?
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blubs
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I'm poor. Brassic....totally potless...poorer than the poorest church mouse.
Its less than 2 weeks before Christmas and I can't afford a tree.
I can't afford any petrol so my car is stranded uselessly and I'm stuck in my house.
I'm pregnant & can't afford to get the house ready for the baby.
We cant afford to move and I hate my neighbours...we have no back garden...but instead share a manky common yard with the houses on either side...which means I can't leave my house without having to see one of my neighbours...
plus one of them has cctv trained on the back to spy on the other neighbour......which I hate too.
Plus they've just had their house pebbledashed by cowboy buliders and all the pebbles have fallen off and they won't clear them up.
And their bird table has attracted a rat...which I've told them , but they still put bird food out...so I've taken to throwing my shoes out of the front door at it.
phew. Thanks black-mamba
complaining does feel good.
Its less than 2 weeks before Christmas and I can't afford a tree.
I can't afford any petrol so my car is stranded uselessly and I'm stuck in my house.
I'm pregnant & can't afford to get the house ready for the baby.
We cant afford to move and I hate my neighbours...we have no back garden...but instead share a manky common yard with the houses on either side...which means I can't leave my house without having to see one of my neighbours...
plus one of them has cctv trained on the back to spy on the other neighbour......which I hate too.
Plus they've just had their house pebbledashed by cowboy buliders and all the pebbles have fallen off and they won't clear them up.
And their bird table has attracted a rat...which I've told them , but they still put bird food out...so I've taken to throwing my shoes out of the front door at it.
phew. Thanks black-mamba
complaining does feel good.
renegade
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Whoaaaaaa...complaining
Well, I don't like to complain, but i feel the need to do it so bad.......
If I'll start enumerating the things that bother me this will be the longest post i'll made.
But no, writing about the thing that ruined my life will make me depressed and I wouldn't like that.
I have no friends, never had and don't have a gf, everyone seems to reject me if i try making friends, i get eppisodes of depression.....i guess that says it all
thx black mamba for this :wink:
Well, I don't like to complain, but i feel the need to do it so bad.......
If I'll start enumerating the things that bother me this will be the longest post i'll made.
But no, writing about the thing that ruined my life will make me depressed and I wouldn't like that.
I have no friends, never had and don't have a gf, everyone seems to reject me if i try making friends, i get eppisodes of depression.....i guess that says it all
thx black mamba for this :wink:
Chilling__Echo
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congrats on being pregnant blubs!!
allanboy
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I think like this when complaining is in need: all the complainer slots are filled so, oh well, i need to go to the otimist ones. It´s really simple, since everybody is talking bad about something or someone, i, say something else, in this case, the contrary.
Well, difference from everybody else. Schizotypal personaltiy disorders right there, and i thinking here that i didnt have this.
Well, difference from everybody else. Schizotypal personaltiy disorders right there, and i thinking here that i didnt have this.
redlady
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Chilling__Echo said:
Whoops i didn't see you there - sorry. I didn't even go to the second page before i replied i just hit the reply button on page 1.
Okay Christmas in Australia - we have it outside under some covering of course. All the food and everything - outside. ( Which can be hazerdous to your sensibilities - one time i picked up some chicken to eat and yep...it had been used as a spawning ground for those lovely flies - there is nothing quite like the feeling of looking down at your food and spying little wriggly things
Chilling__Echo
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that's so weird! my mind can't fathom a hot christmas :lol:
that's a gruesome story by the way 8O
that's a gruesome story by the way 8O
black_mamba
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Yeah sometimes its so difficult to complain without hurting other people or making them hate you when you have no social skills to begin with.
Thats why I started this thread, because getting all my negative thoughts about my university down on paper made me feel better for unloading, and also I didn't upset anyone.
I guess I also posted this thread because I've been very good about keeping positive in the last few months, thought I'd give myself a break.
Oh my gosh blubs, congratulations!! I'm so sad to hear you've got things tough at the moment, make sure you survive it. I can ask my pet midget to mug some rich kids from 'round here and snail mail you the cash...
And lostboi, your situation sounds very difficult too. I wish I could help.
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Complaint list #2:
-The freshers at my uni are disgustingly SHALLOW and RUDE; they say how ugly all the girls are on the campus (what, all four of us?) when I'm sitting right next to them, no effing respect. :evil: How can people say that without thinking about how it hurts others around them? What pigs. :evil: *fumes*
-I've run out of food, and of course, I don't wanna leave the house for more supplies.
-I'm slowly slowly loosing confidence about myself. Hey why am I complaining, at least its familiar territory.
Thats why I started this thread, because getting all my negative thoughts about my university down on paper made me feel better for unloading, and also I didn't upset anyone.
I guess I also posted this thread because I've been very good about keeping positive in the last few months, thought I'd give myself a break.
Oh my gosh blubs, congratulations!! I'm so sad to hear you've got things tough at the moment, make sure you survive it. I can ask my pet midget to mug some rich kids from 'round here and snail mail you the cash...
And lostboi, your situation sounds very difficult too.
I wish I could help.----------------------------------------
Complaint list #2:
-The freshers at my uni are disgustingly SHALLOW and RUDE; they say how ugly all the girls are on the campus (what, all four of us?) when I'm sitting right next to them, no effing respect. :evil: How can people say that without thinking about how it hurts others around them? What pigs. :evil: *fumes*
-I've run out of food, and of course, I don't wanna leave the house for more supplies.
-I'm slowly slowly loosing confidence about myself. Hey why am I complaining, at least its familiar territory.
refined_rascal
Active member
I enjoy complaining.
The irony is, in terms of SA, complaining and generally making a scene is a way of clawing back a little power, instead of forever feeling completely powerless. Which is what my SA does to me.
It is difficult and sometimes i do let things slip. But sometimes you just HAVE to speak up. Only fight the battles you know you can win.
The irony is, in terms of SA, complaining and generally making a scene is a way of clawing back a little power, instead of forever feeling completely powerless. Which is what my SA does to me.
It is difficult and sometimes i do let things slip. But sometimes you just HAVE to speak up. Only fight the battles you know you can win.
Greenade
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Complain............ ME!!! 8O
I'm a regular little Angel me... i mean what could i have to possibly complain about.... hmm
Apart from EVERYTHING :x
1: My girlfriend got sick of me being shy and bogged off without so much as a warm look..
2: I'm bloody old now at 34, stoopid age thing, i don't do getting old, i play with toys for goodness sake
3: I'm scared of going out....so i don't...which makes me sick of being in...so i shop...and who am i ever going to speak to while shopping......aaarrgghh
4: I'm frigging lonely all the time....SHIT SHIT SHIT SHIT SHIT SHIT !!!!!
Ahh thats better
Hang on a mo, no it isnt, don't you just F***ing hate people that say its better all the time?
I mean it never is....and they come out with crap like "oh never mind" or "there are people worse off than you" AAARRRGGGHHHH!!!!!!
Breath......in.........out..........in..........out
Thats better
No it isn't
AAHH i'm off again
:x :x :x
Ade
I'm a regular little Angel me... i mean what could i have to possibly complain about.... hmm
Apart from EVERYTHING :x
1: My girlfriend got sick of me being shy and bogged off without so much as a warm look..
2: I'm bloody old now at 34, stoopid age thing, i don't do getting old, i play with toys for goodness sake
3: I'm scared of going out....so i don't...which makes me sick of being in...so i shop...and who am i ever going to speak to while shopping......aaarrgghh
4: I'm frigging lonely all the time....SHIT SHIT SHIT SHIT SHIT SHIT !!!!!
Ahh thats better
Hang on a mo, no it isnt, don't you just F***ing hate people that say its better all the time?
I mean it never is....and they come out with crap like "oh never mind" or "there are people worse off than you" AAARRRGGGHHHH!!!!!!
Breath......in.........out..........in..........out
Thats better
No it isn't
AAHH i'm off again
:x :x :x
Ade
refined_rascal
Active member
Greenade said:
I do indeed. I can only suppose the sort of people who spew up cliches such as the ones you mentioned, never have cause to complain about anything at all. And if they do, they have absolutely no right to.
black_mamba said:
I feel the same about my university here in the states. Sure...I can discuss politics, foreign affairs, philosophy, psychology, and physics, but can I do anything that could make me a darn bit of money?? NO!
I think college is crap. I love learning but there is no way this stuff can make us better employees.
black_mamba
Well-known member
Greenade said:
Hey at least you don't do all your shopping online, or do you? 8O
Nothing worse than feeling lonely and going out to innocently buy some food, then getting crushed by hundreds of sappy sickly couples and gangs of friends in town.
Greenade
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black_mamba said:Hey at least you don't do all your shopping online, or do you? 8O
Nothing worse than feeling lonely and going out to innocently buy some food, then getting crushed by hundreds of sappy sickly couples and gangs of friends in town.
No i don't do all my shopping online.....i would be a total recluse if i did... 8O
Sickly couples aaarrrggghh 8O
I wanna be a sickly couple, im BANGIN on the door but they won't let me in and they can't hear me coz my voice melts into the wind... :?
But do you hear me complaining ???
YEAH YA DO
aDE (sTUPID cAPS lOCK)
sweetsour_eisha
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-I hate my life i wish my mother stabbed me when i was little or maybe aborted me
-My friend left me without a reason.. my one and only friend
- i begin to hate her and i hate this feeling of hatred of hating her
-hate my voice
- hate my timidness
- hate my face
- i'm an ugly freak with new pimples coming out this season
- i hate it when my mother keeps on mugging about how fat some people are and she wanted to be slim
- i hate the fact she's going to the spa session makes me feel totally ugly n fat
- why can't i control me?
- I am afraid to take the next step ALONE
- I'M SO DAMN FUCKING LONELY
- I'M LONELY
- I'M LONELY......... ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
- WHY DO I HAVE A LOW SELF-ESTEEM, AND I GOT THIS FEELING THAT MY MOTHER'S MAKING IT WORSE
-I DON'T LIKE BLACKHEADS
- Fuck
Okay.. thanks.. i feel much better :wink:
mamba .. u rock!!
-My friend left me without a reason.. my one and only friend
- i begin to hate her and i hate this feeling of hatred of hating her
-hate my voice
- hate my timidness
- hate my face
- i'm an ugly freak with new pimples coming out this season
- i hate it when my mother keeps on mugging about how fat some people are and she wanted to be slim
- i hate the fact she's going to the spa session makes me feel totally ugly n fat
- why can't i control me?
- I am afraid to take the next step ALONE
- I'M SO DAMN FUCKING LONELY
- I'M LONELY
- I'M LONELY......... ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
- WHY DO I HAVE A LOW SELF-ESTEEM, AND I GOT THIS FEELING THAT MY MOTHER'S MAKING IT WORSE
-I DON'T LIKE BLACKHEADS
- Fuck
Okay.. thanks.. i feel much better :wink:
mamba .. u rock!!
Greenade
Well-known member
sweetsour_eisha said:-I hate my life i wish my mother stabbed me when i was little or maybe aborted me
-My friend left me without a reason.. my one and only friend
- i begin to hate her and i hate this feeling of hatred of hating her
-hate my voice
- hate my timidness
- hate my face
- i'm an ugly freak with new pimples coming out this season
- i hate it when my mother keeps on mugging about how fat some people are and she wanted to be slim
- i hate the fact she's going to the spa session makes me feel totally ugly n fat
- why can't i control me?
- I am afraid to take the next step ALONE
- I'M SO DAMN FUCKING LONELY
- I'M LONELY
- I'M LONELY......... ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
- WHY DO I HAVE A LOW SELF-ESTEEM, AND I GOT THIS FEELING THAT MY MOTHER'S MAKING IT WORSE
-I DON'T LIKE BLACKHEADS
- Fuck
Okay.. thanks.. i feel much better :wink:
mamba .. u rock!!
8O OMG
You poor thing!!!!!!!
(BIG HUGS FOR YA)
Not much i know, but until they invent virtual hugging its the best i can do :?
Ade
black_mamba
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sweetsour_eisha said:
Look how many of us have said we're lonely. Maybe we should all meet up and beat up a punch bag together for fun.
