Do most of you end up letting woman ask you out?

[voodoochild16]

Hey all, just got a question to ask on the polls, you don't have to talk about it in the thread, it's up to you.

 

[mozart87]

it is not such a big deal who asks who out..

 

[Esperance]

I used to have some girls ask me out in school but I always refused because I was sure they were making fun of me since I never talked to them and isn't really good looking

 

[Arthur_Dent]

Yeah, just sit there waiting for a woman to ask you out, that works wonders:

Get up, find professional help, work on your social anxiety, know yourself and be confident of that person, once you don't feel desperate about being alone, while enjoying whatever you like to do, you may get to know someone. Or if you enjoy going to socializing places like clubs, bars and parties, even better.

 

[voodoochild16]

Believe it or not, and yes it depends on how you look to them, everytime I've sat down in a bar by myself at a table, or even with 1 friend, some girl always shows up and starts talking to me. They're always decent looking too. But that's been 3 times in the past 3 years. I tried dating the first girl but it ended because of SA, so I am afraid to go for it again so the past 2 other girls I just kind of sounded out (didn't say much, didn't get into sharing phone numbers).

I am determined though, I will prepare myself for when it is the right time.

 

[thegunners21]

Wait...women ask men out?!!!!

 

[recluse]

Yes which explains why I am 32 years old and never had a girlfriend.

 

[bcsr]

I've never had a woman actually "ask me out" even the ones who were extremely flirty and made their interest blatantly obvious never asked me out. I've always had to do that.

I'm not counting online dating, I've had them ask me out via OkCupid.

 

[Griffin]

Yeah, I've never asked a woman out - I keep expecting that in this day and age there'll be some women who will step up.

I know that's never going to happen and that it's likely to be the case that men have to make the first move for at least the next 20 years.

I find it hard to take that first step. I'm working on getting myself in shape and on getting a job after I was made redundant. From what I've seen, money may not mean everything in getting a relationship, but if you're unemployed, it makes a hard task a lot harder.

 

[Opaline]

I've never had a woman actually "ask me out" even the ones who were extremely flirty and made their interest blatantly obvious never asked me out. I've always had to do that.

I'm not counting online dating, I've had them ask me out via OkCupid.

*bats eyelashes at bcsr*

 

[MikeyC]

Women have asked me out in the past. I think the ledger is evening out, but it's still more socially acceptable for the men to ask the women out on dates.

 

[OceanMist]

All of my dating has been done from online dating (meeting women in person through that) except for one girl.

I've never actually had a woman ask me out in person. That would be nice if she was decent looking.

I've gone to bars and parties before but was never asked out by any woman. The only woman that even came up to me literally told me that she wasn't hitting on me.

At parties it usually consisted of me having to go up to women and talk to them.

 

[bcsr]

*bats eyelashes at bcsr*

Lol.. Well, how you doing?

 

[theoutsider]

Yeah, just sit there waiting for a woman to ask you out, that works wonders:

Get up, find professional help, work on your social anxiety, know yourself and be confident of that person, once you don't feel desperate about being alone, while enjoying whatever you like to do, you may get to know someone. Or if you enjoy going to socializing places like clubs, bars and parties, even better.

Have to agree with this post. My lovelife wouls have been nonexistent had I waited for women to ask me out. Very few guys are so charming that they have a good number of women asking them out. I know I'm not...lol.