Yeah, fiftw, what's with the attitude??
You're a handsome hunk, face it bro!!
When I first saw you on the photo thread, I was like Whoa... WOW!!
And you know what girls think when someone is quiet and doesn't say much: 'Whoa.. mysterious stranger!!' (Kinda like Aragorn in LOTR, or something...)
So, it would only be a problem if she talked too much, or if she and you had different values/goals/wishes in life etc. Or if she'd want to drag you out in uncomfortable locations all the time.. (which you can counter with cool not-so-social date locations you can suggest, and see how happy she's there.. maybe she just wanted to be somewhere 'safe' for the 1st date, and might be okay with going somewhere more private with you then later.. might even be flattered that you want to be alone with her..)
you can also ask her, how she likes to spend her time etc. and see from the answers, how often she goes to social thingies etc.
maybe she worked in the bar at a time and that's why everyone knows her?
(I know an ex-waitress who likes to go on long walks alone tho too.. maybe a bit too cold for that now, or what's the weather over there?)
You know a lot of people here too, and does it make her a 'loser' that she doesn't know any of us here? hmm, thing to consider??
(You may be seen to be 'glamorous' to have international pen-friends, aye?
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