Social_Monstrosity
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Do you cry a lot and if so..do you feel guilty or less manly (If you're a guy) afterwards?
I usually cry or get teary-eyed every 2-3 days...
I usually cry or get teary-eyed every 2-3 days...
Crying...
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i have trouble crying to be honest, but having said that not alot upsets me enough to make me cry but last week i did first time in about 14 years! no messin. Got hurt big time and that was enough to make me cry and the person who did it to me knew what effect it would have on me too, but i forgave them i'm a sucker for love i guess lol
sleepysparrow
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Well, i'm a girl, but I usually cry about 3-5 times a day, usually just from sadness that never goes away. I don't think it's anything to feel guilty about if you're a man, it's sometimes a good release.
I cry, but not around others. I mean, I have to cry the pain is too much. But absolutely doesnt mean you are weak or anything like that. In fact, its quite healthy to cry and people should not hold in their feelings, cause that is unhealthy.
I think being a male I hold my emotions in, I always have. But I cry, and I usually do it when I am alone.
I think being a male I hold my emotions in, I always have. But I cry, and I usually do it when I am alone.
LycraPantiies92
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Every night. nm to do i spose. xx
LycraPantiies92
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Mm..i have answered this i think .. but yano what i'm answering it again. stuff you if you don't want me to. oh now i need to apoligise for soundin nasty >.< well i am sorry. that i even exist.
i cried today. iv cried probably 4/7 nights this week..cos it's not sunday yet. well it is but you know.
i did feel stupid for doing it, end of the day no1 cares. no1 cared at that point and now i've got over it..
last night i deamt of having friends, how sad.
bloody me >.<
x
i cried today. iv cried probably 4/7 nights this week..cos it's not sunday yet. well it is but you know.
i did feel stupid for doing it, end of the day no1 cares. no1 cared at that point and now i've got over it..
last night i deamt of having friends, how sad.
bloody me >.<
x
i find it hard not to cry, and i dont care as long as no one sees me.
ive been told crying is like a relief from tension, pain and stuff and then afterwards you feel better
people say that guys shouldnt cry.
well ive seen them england players at the world cup.
they seem happy enough now!
ive been told crying is like a relief from tension, pain and stuff and then afterwards you feel better
people say that guys shouldnt cry.
well ive seen them england players at the world cup.
they seem happy enough now!
sleepysparrow
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It's ok Barry. I get really depressed and i'm also very sensitive so crying is just how I deal with things, if I didn't cry I would probably be really angry and self destructive.
Flowers-Of-Bloom
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I don't cry very often anymore. I used to.
Guys - Don't feel less 'manly' for crying. C'mon. That belief is pathetic.
Guys - Don't feel less 'manly' for crying. C'mon. That belief is pathetic.
dottie
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i cry like every other day, probably more. if i cry it's usually multiple times in that day. it is very surprising to me that i did not cry today! i do it alone. music and movies easily trigger me to cry but if there are people around i usually manage to stuff it.
when i saw titanic in the theatre i started crying at the intro music before the movie even started lol... maybe because i already knew the ending? hahaha i'm an emotional wreck.
i cry in very inappropriate times/places, too. once during class lecture (a college course!) i burst into tears, ran out, and left all of my stuff behind. my teacher came outside looking for me, way after class was over (i lost track of time). she kind of consoled me and told me to take deep breaths. there are other times in classes where i managed to cry to myself with my hood up, if you know what i mean. there are other places/occasions, too, that were totally inappropriate but i couldn't contain myself. obviously, it's embarrassing.
better click away from this website or it will bring me down now. g2g. adios.
when i saw titanic in the theatre i started crying at the intro music before the movie even started lol... maybe because i already knew the ending? hahaha i'm an emotional wreck.
i cry in very inappropriate times/places, too. once during class lecture (a college course!) i burst into tears, ran out, and left all of my stuff behind. my teacher came outside looking for me, way after class was over (i lost track of time). she kind of consoled me and told me to take deep breaths. there are other times in classes where i managed to cry to myself with my hood up, if you know what i mean. there are other places/occasions, too, that were totally inappropriate but i couldn't contain myself. obviously, it's embarrassing.
better click away from this website or it will bring me down now. g2g. adios.
divethruhaze
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I never cry in front of others and avoid it as much as I can. I suspect it might be because I'm trying to put up a tough front and think displaying emotions is a weakness. On the other hand, when I'm alone, whenever I think about something sad or just feel upset, I cry freely.
Anyway, guys shouldn't feel embarrassed to cry, it's perfectly normal.
Anyway, guys shouldn't feel embarrassed to cry, it's perfectly normal.
