i feel ya. alot of people i know are in the wrong relationships just because they cant handle the fact of being alone. then they will break up and my friend will just hop onto the next person. while theres me on the other hand enjoying my seclusion. To be happy you need to know who you are and find out who you are, not let someone elses existence define who you are, just doesnt make sense. however i used to be afraid of being alone, then i got out of my last relationship and havent looked back. I found new and exciting activities to pre occupy my time at first, then i began to find out who I really am and thats me.