theoutsider
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My SA causes me to be an introvert but I also feel uncomfortable when I am around a few people and there's awkward silence. I always feel like I should say something. Most of the time I don't but when I do force myself to say something, it usually winds up being stupid just because I was desperate to come up with something to say. Like me and a co-worker were standing at the window looking at construction of a building that's going up beside ours. Neither of us were speaking and it was getting kind of uncomfortable so I thought I had to say something. I wound up blurting out something about how it looks like the walls are going to be made of concrete. Turns out they were just building the outside of the building so of course they were using concrete. They were no where near putting the walls in yet. mg: I knew this and right after I said it, I realized how dumb it was. To make it worse, my co-worker shook her head and laughed.
I'm always, always saying things like that because I can't take the awkward silence! Sometimes I feel like I haven't spoken to my manager for days so I will think of a question to ask her just to let her know I'm not ignoring her. Then the question will turn out to be so stupid. I feel like I am probably known as the guy who constantly asks/says stupid things at work. Today was just awful. I must have said stupid things on three different occasions. :kickingmyself: I guess the awkward silence is better than blurting out nonsensical statements. I'm done with it.
Anybody ever gone through or is going through this?
I'm always, always saying things like that because I can't take the awkward silence! Sometimes I feel like I haven't spoken to my manager for days so I will think of a question to ask her just to let her know I'm not ignoring her. Then the question will turn out to be so stupid. I feel like I am probably known as the guy who constantly asks/says stupid things at work. Today was just awful. I must have said stupid things on three different occasions. :kickingmyself: I guess the awkward silence is better than blurting out nonsensical statements. I'm done with it.
Anybody ever gone through or is going through this?