being single forever sucks

being single is so much better.

Getting along with a woman, for me, is entirely impossible.

haah we need a match-making thing here 😛

fitftw said: ↑

being single doesn't suck.

You have more money when you're single.

You don't have to feel obligated to do stuff. You can stay home when you want and not have to get in arguments about it.

you also have more time to play "love triangle" with mrs. left and right.

IAMN said: ↑

you also have more time to play "love triangle" with mrs. left and right.

No, Mrs. Right is always occupied with the mouse :-( No polygamy for me.

and then you can focus on yourself, work on yourself get what you what and then later once you're ready for a relationship everything will be smoother. Honestly polygamy disgusts me

What's disgusting about polygamy? Monogamy is a manmade set of rules, it really isn't natural.

humans are meant to be polygamists. Why do you think the divorce rate is like 70%?

Everyone just wants to sleep around. I have no problem with it.

fitftw said: ↑

humans are meant to be polygamists. Why do you think the divorce rate is like 70%?

Everyone just wants to sleep around. I have no problem with it.

What, and is love just an illusion?
Said the virgin.

Oh it's natural for me it depends on your cultural background and I am Agnostic, I don't imagine myself as a primate mating with everyone I see and please. I like the idea of having someone specially and focusing all my attention to her. I can't be placed in the same box with those 70% I guess 😛.

for me love is very real, but also something very difficult to fight for, but I'm not too sexual and have my hormones under control so perhaps that's why. Hehe hormonal discipline 😛

I like rules and order ;D

but I know what you mean Felgen! Norwegian women also made me want to become polygamist xD

RelentlessHamster said: ↑

Oh it's natural for me it depends on your cultural background and I am Agnostic, I don't imagine myself as a primate mating with everyone I see and please. I like the idea of having someone specially and focusing all my attention to her. I can't be placed in the same box with those 70% I guess 😛.

for me love is very real, but also something very difficult to fight for, but I'm not too sexual and have my hormones under control so perhaps that's why. Hehe hormonal discipline 😛

I feel exactly the same as you I could never be put in that 70%.

[When I fall in love it will be forever*
Or I'll never fall in love*
In a restless world like this is*
Love is ended before it's begun*
And too many moonlight kisses*
Seem to cool in the warmth of the sun*

When I give my heart it will be completely*
Or I'll never give my heart*
And the moment I can feel that you feel that way too*
Is when I fall in love with you.]

🙂 good, high five

I agree that Norwegian women are hot, too bad I'll never have a chance with one.

I've grown to accept that I'll never get close to a female unless I pay an escort. Girls NEVER approach me, I guess because my SA gives off these cold, standoffish vibes. It's impossible to cope with being alone like this 🙁

Guys have this weird notion that girls will dare to approach them-??

Guys, it's your job to approach the girls!!
Honestly I've seen nothing-special dudes with really lovely women or girls, so...?

It may indeed depend on the attitude, slightly cocky/funny can be fun, it really depends on the person if they can pull it off!!

There are lots of tips on how to approach women online and in books etc.
You can still be respectful and have a sense of humor.

And I've seen so many cute guys here on SPW it really amazes me!!

Social_Monstrosity said: ↑

I agree that Norwegian women are hot, too bad I'll never have a chance with one.

I've grown to accept that I'll never get close to a female unless I pay an escort. Girls NEVER approach me, I guess because my SA gives off these cold, standoffish vibes. It's impossible to cope with being alone like this 🙁

Are you norse matey 😛? if you are that makes you viking so go get some lassies for you xD! do it for your proud ancestors

lots of people grow up old and alone. Many of them live fulfilling lives. Many of us on this site will grow old and alone.

Those who say they just want someone to love and not be in the 70% yadda yadda I smell bullcrap. As soon as you get a woman, you will fool yourself into falling in love, and then once she FINALLY lets you in her pants, you will soon lose interest.

For men it's all about the thrill of the hunt, and finally conquering. Always has been.

Or maybe it's just me, and I don't believe love exists. So, who's the one that's going to grow old and alone? Oh yeah, me.

Feathers said: ↑

Guys have this weird notion that girls will dare to approach them-??

Guys, it's your job to approach the girls!!
Honestly I've seen nothing-special dudes with really lovely women or girls, so...?

It may indeed depend on the attitude, slightly cocky/funny can be fun, it really depends on the person if they can pull it off!!

There are lots of tips on how to approach women online and in books etc.
You can still be respectful and have a sense of humor.

And I've seen so many cute guys here on SPW it really amazes me!!

This about men doing the approaching is a socially constructed standard just like the aforementioned monogamy, so a woman doesn't really have any more to lose by doing the approaching than the man.

A lot of women would also feel uncomfortable (I can understand why) if a random guy hit on them at the mall or at the street. Pick-up artists are (for the most part) not womanizers, but salesmen. Some of the stuff (eg. cocky-funny) works, but most of it just makes use of the placebo effect.

Furthermore, I don't know many ugly men with hot girlfriends. Both genders are genetically engineered to take looks into consideration, even though a lot of high school girls will go after the "cool" guy even if he's ugly.

I see a lot of dumb-asses with hot chicks, they'll all kinds of tastes and flavours

;P women always go for the bad-boys because they appear to be more confident and hence more suitable for mating lol

Women in Sweden did approach me and I'm not handsome, so it depends on many factors. Here women simply avoid me which is good because I don't fancy them that much either.

Feathers said: ↑

Guys have this weird notion that girls will dare to approach them-??

Guys, it's your job to approach the girls!!
Honestly I've seen nothing-special dudes with really lovely women or girls, so...?

It may indeed depend on the attitude, slightly cocky/funny can be fun, it really depends on the person if they can pull it off!!

There are lots of tips on how to approach women online and in books etc.
You can still be respectful and have a sense of humor.

And I've seen so many cute guys here on SPW it really amazes me!!

Books, online tips and tricks. In my opinion do not and will not offer any assistance when facing the emotions. I find being told to just go do it just doesn't help.

We become walled up. Behind the wall the normal sense of humor, personality, identity, gone for the moment. Human switch to defensive robot.

To save a thousand words (below picture).

You're all the way up there, we're that person wearing what looks to be a red hat. Mount Rejection, we're going to need more than our nice red hat.


I return to my tea. Which is empty now.