being single forever sucks

spect01

spect01

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I hear ya man. Except I never asked any girl out and I've been single forever as well. No female friends in the past or nothing. Never rejected or anything cause I never tried. It's just too weird. I don't want to end up having 0 experience in my mid 20's. I see girls all over the place when I go out but I can't talk to them. Just can't do it. Plus I'm not a jerk or a douchebag and I don't have money or friends....
 
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Ask out girls that you don't really care about. That way if they shut you down you wont really care and if they say yes then at least you got a girl for the weekend. Then you can ditch them when you get tired of them. Isn't that what the "normal" men do now adays?
 
fitftw

fitftw

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being single doesn't suck.

You have more money when you're single.

You don't have to feel obligated to do stuff. You can stay home when you want and not have to get in arguments about it.
 
Sial Axetder

Sial Axetder

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I am just one. A statistic.

At times will fly well with one.
At times flying becomes difficult.
The extra pilot would be welcome.
 
Felgen

Felgen

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fitftw said:
being single doesn't suck.

You have more money when you're single.

You don't have to feel obligated to do stuff. You can stay home when you want and not have to get in arguments about it.
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Never having had a girlfriend feels pretty bad. I know, because I didn't have a serious relationship before I was 21.
 
RelentlessHamster

RelentlessHamster

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sometimes when we're looking too hard we start looking a bit desperate and people feel that, try to relax and not think so much about that :) focus on other things and it will happen naturally when you least expect, try to meet girls that share same interests.

So to all of you who say you'll be alone forever, don't say that, don't think that kind of things, you need to motivate yourselves not the way around, I think gaining some confidence and self-esteem is crucial here, apparently the people I know regardless of traits who are most successful with men and women are the ones with higher confidence and self-esteem.
 
Felgen

Felgen

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RelentlessHamster said:
sometimes when we're looking too hard we start looking a bit desperate and people feel that, try to relax and not think so much about that :) focus on other things and it will happen naturally when you least expect, try to meet girls that share same interests.

So to all of you who say you'll be alone forever, don't say that, don't think that kind of things, you need to motivate yourselves not the way around, I think gaining some confidence and self-esteem is crucial here, apparently the people I know regardless of traits who are most successful with men and women are the ones with higher confidence and self-esteem.
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What about the people who've passed 40 and never even got the chance to kiss a girl? In my experience, you should try, but not too hard and without appearing desperate.
 
slowmotiondaydream

slowmotiondaydream

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i get easily bored of the person ive been with.. being single is enjoyable for about a month after a breakup you encouraged. but it sucks now :( i miss someone being there
 
doubleM

doubleM

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fitftw said:
being single doesn't suck.

You have more money when you're single.

You don't have to feel obligated to do stuff. You can stay home when you want and not have to get in arguments about it.
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true. i like being solo, thats just the way i am. no rules, no obligations, hakuna matata... but then theres that part of me needs to find that right person whos worth making a commitment to.
 
RelentlessHamster

RelentlessHamster

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it does suck however more money :D equals attraction lol

They say there is no age limit for these things, humm Norway's society is too complex no wonder people then have a hard time socializing, so that you know my first kiss was horrible, so I think it's all over-rated and the mass media give this too much importance that we feel hopeless when we're single.

:D Let's all become asexual and then we don't have to worry about that x)
 
RelentlessHamster

RelentlessHamster

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:D but it's hard this is such a sexual society, I think asexuality is the last step into complete freedom of speech, we need political, financial, social etc. but emotional freedom too I suppose.

It's so bad to be so dependant on someone or in the search for someone else when we're lonely, so it's either to depend on someone or in the actual search for someone :D neither options please me.
 
slowmotiondaydream

slowmotiondaydream

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i know, many times i ponder what makes me feel this way. i came to the conclusion it's 'someone' that im lacking and i absolutely hate the thought that the thing im lacking most is a person and basically spw is made out to be about the troubles to do with the interactions with one another.. THAT WE ALL HAVE TROUBLE WITH
 
RelentlessHamster

RelentlessHamster

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we have a empty hole, it's up to us to fill it :) doesn't have to be a person, when I got my cat, this hole was partially filled but of course interacting with my cat which resumes to basically feeding him is different from what I'd expect from a girl hah :p
 
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