You are not alone. Don't know why ... I know why. Freak, no. Nervous. That constant knocking in the head. A raven.
basic flirtation anyone?
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You are not alone. Don't know why ... I know why. Freak, no. Nervous. That constant knocking in the head. A raven.
Tiercel
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If she's dim-witted, of Italian descent, and lives in northern New Jersey you might be in luck.
But if her mind is sharp and she's from the southern half of the state, watch out! If you're lucky she'll remind herself just how insignificant you are to the universe. If you're unlucky....
i wish i could throw smiles across a room. i can't do that without looking insane.
That depends on whose smiles you're throwing and how you acquired them....
Waybuloo
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If it is across the room, it's the eyes, eyebrows raised in a wide eyed look, and smiling naughtily when your eyes meet. Head is cocked.
If deep in conversation, then smiling a lot, finding ways to touch you, leaning forward, talking and smiling like we are sharing an in-joke.
Kiwong
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Me too. I'm basically an altruist, and I'm doing a whole generation of women a favour, by not flirting.
coyote
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you're not talking about Pookah, are you?
Tiercel
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panicsurvivor
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Lots of guys try all kinds of stuff. And sometimes it works but I have seen that usually the best way to flirt, is pretty simple. When your talking to a friend what do you do for the most part. You joke. I've seen guys try to come on strong and impress girls with their manliness, and money and muscles. But usually the guys that just make the girl feel relaxed and happy usually get the date. Compliments are allright, but most girls that are not lamb and shallow will get bored of them, and would prefer to talk about something that interests them instead of hearing how wonderful they are. We guys generally over think this kind of thing. We make girls into some kind of exotic species in our minds.
They are just people and for the most part people want to laugh. As far as when to aproach a girl, If she has made eye contact and smiled at you more than three times without speaking to you should talk to her!
They are just people and for the most part people want to laugh. As far as when to aproach a girl, If she has made eye contact and smiled at you more than three times without speaking to you should talk to her!
R3X
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Here's what i know and experienced :
-Invading one's personal space is also a sign she's flirting.Like for example,you're in a bus and there are other empty seats around but she chose to sit near you.
-Smiling everytime your eyes meet(especially when her eyes sort of 'twinkle/sparkle' a bit).
-She makes an effort to talk to you even if it's just a short "Hi!".
-She stares at you a lot.
-Stealing glances(over the shoulder look,looking at you when she's confident you're not looking).
-She's different around you than when she's with her friends.(Example,she's all happy and giddy but when she sees you,she immediately gets all quiet for some reason)
Well,that's what i know and experienced anyway but that's about it.I couldn't take another step(Talk to her) and i missed a hell of a lot of chances.Oh well,i can at least say hi and bye now and sorta improving but progress has been at a crawl.To know if she's REALLY interested in you or just plain flirty is hard to know really unless if she confesses to you.
-Invading one's personal space is also a sign she's flirting.Like for example,you're in a bus and there are other empty seats around but she chose to sit near you.
-Smiling everytime your eyes meet(especially when her eyes sort of 'twinkle/sparkle' a bit).
-She makes an effort to talk to you even if it's just a short "Hi!".
-She stares at you a lot.
-Stealing glances(over the shoulder look,looking at you when she's confident you're not looking).
-She's different around you than when she's with her friends.(Example,she's all happy and giddy but when she sees you,she immediately gets all quiet for some reason)
Well,that's what i know and experienced anyway but that's about it.I couldn't take another step(Talk to her) and i missed a hell of a lot of chances.Oh well,i can at least say hi and bye now and sorta improving but progress has been at a crawl.To know if she's REALLY interested in you or just plain flirty is hard to know really unless if she confesses to you.
mrb
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god dont ask me im hopeless at all that stuff , some woman started chatting me up on the plane on the way back from ireland a while ago , i didnt know what to say to her im spoken for anyways ... she got the asse when i didnt give her my e mail add or my mobile number , but then she was drunk
im hopeless at all that stuff , some woman started chatting me up on the plane on the way back from ireland a while ago , i didnt know what to say to her im spoken for anyways ... she got the asse when i didnt give her my e mail add or my mobile number , but then she was drunk
R3X
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I thought I had never flirted with anyone or had been flirted with by anyone, but if this is flirting I defiantly have been flirted with and returned the flirt.
Hahaha.You missed your shot then.Same here.I missed a lot in my life and i still regret not doing anything at all at the time.I totally fail when it comes to this.It's hard to act "normal/casual" when you really like someone you know? And in the end,she think's i'm not interested in her or just a snob. :
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