are people really that sex crazy?

[recluse]

isn't that a crazy bachelorette party?

I dont know why there is the tradition to hire strippers before marrying someone.

Neither do i. They say that it's to celebrate their last freedom...What the hell does that mean? So they say it's ok to cheat as long as they are not married? To me watching strippers is a form of cheating, some might say that it's not but it definately draws the line in my opinion.

 

[Danfalc]

Neither do i. They say that it's to celebrate their last freedom...What the hell does that mean? So they say it's ok to cheat as long as they are not married? To me watching strippers is a form of cheating, some might say that it's not but it definately draws the line in my opinion.

I think it depends on the couple...I wouldnt personaly have a stripper for my stag do.But this couple i knew...his girlfriend got him the stipper lol.Some girls have a male stripper for there hen night Its not like they sleep with them its just a laugh...and if both people are cool with it i dont see the problem.Just cos its not too our tastes doesnt mean its wrong.

 

[recluse]

Would'nt the other half feel inadequete having their partner ogling over an attractive person? I know i would.

 

[Danfalc]

Would'nt the other half feel inadequete having their partner ogling over an attractive person? I know i would.

I would aswell, feel insecure that is and i couldnt to it to my gf 1.cos i wouldnt want to make her feel insecure.2.Its just not somthing id really want to do anyway.

But going back the the couple i knew,the girl obviously felt secure enough if she hired it for him as a suprise
And even if she was a lil insecure deep down she trusted him maybe.I dont know tho cos i cant speak for anyone buy myself.

 

[Perfidion]

Call me Mr. Traditional or what ever you like, but I want my sex to include a lot of feelings. I want to make love to my partner.

And yet, when you look at it objectively, there's really not a chasm of difference between a man and a woman "making love", and two wildebeest rutting in the middle of the African savanna. We're all animals. Slaves to our feral urges. Higher brain functions just complicate things a little more.

 

[Perfidion]

Would'nt the other half feel inadequete having their partner ogling over an attractive person? I know i would.

I think that's taking insecurity a little far. I mean, given that every woman on the face of the planet is having multiple-orgasms over Robert Pattinson in Twilight at the moment, it's pretty much unavoidable. Even if your girl loves you more than life itself, she's going to find Brad Pitt, Antonio Banderas, Justin Timberlake, random hot guy on the bus etc. drool-worthy. That's just fact. Provided she's window-shopping and not actually sampling the merchandise, I'm cool with it. But that's just me.

 

[MadCat]

I mean, given that every woman on the face of the planet is having multiple-orgasms over Robert Pattinson

Uh, ok...don't even think the guys that good looking myself. Hell I'd say Sean Astin when he was in Toy Soldiers is better looking, but we all have our preferences anyway, so each to his own.

 

[Perfidion]

Yeah, okay, perhaps it's just every woman I know personally, but they're all going on about how dreamy he is. It's nauseating.

Not that I'm jealous or anything. *cough*

 

[MadCat]

Yeah, okay, perhaps it's just every woman I know personally, but they're all going on about how dreamy he is. It's nauseating.

Not that I'm jealous or anything. *cough*

Lol don't blame ya. They're all too superficial I think.

 

[DaaaBulls]

no1 I guess I don't really understand what you are talking about or what world you are living in where you see this happening? I've been to many many parties and none have sex as the main theme. Yes I am sure some people hook up but those people are a small percentage of the people at the party. Humans are naturally sexual creatures, the human orgasm is one of our many qualities that define us from other animals. If you don't want to have sex then don't, why does it matter?

 

[Perfidion]

I think maybe he's confused about the difference between your ordinary, garden-variety party, and a swingers party.

 

[DaaaBulls]

I don't know if you would call college parties at a major university that may or may not be a frat houses "ordinary garden variety parties" and swingers parties are usually older people who are obsessed with sex and aren't really the norm.

 

[MadCat]

Lol couldn't help but chuckle at the garden variety parties reference.

 

[gsmax5]

Neither do i. They say that it's to celebrate their last freedom...What the hell does that mean? So they say it's ok to cheat as long as they are not married? To me watching strippers is a form of cheating, some might say that it's not but it definately draws the line in my opinion.

I always thought that. It's such a weird tradition. You're allowed to see people naked but only if you pay them???

 

[Remus]

Is this a link to a porn site?

yup it was, member banned

rules: http://www.socialphobiaworld.com/policy-revised-rules-3332/

 

[Satine]

Can I trust my friends to not hit on my girlfriend?

Surely it's the girlfriend you'd need to trust. Any number of guys might hit on her, but if she doesn't respond, where's the problem?