Sinar_Matahari
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My friend and I were approached by a self-proclaimed shy guy at the bar last night. He wasn't looking to hit on us, but he was looking for some company.
We had just arrived at the bar, and this young man comes up to us, noticeably shy and a bit nervous. He asked if we would care to join him for some drinks as he didn't want to drink alone so I told him that he was more than welcome to join us.
We all got to talking and one of the first things he mentioned was that he is shy and that it takes him a while to warm up to people. Also, he made it clear that he doesn't like to be in crowded areas or around too many people he doesn't know. He didn't make much eye contact and he was nervous and a bit awkward, but he was able to keep a conversation going and he's very smart from what I could tell. I made sure to let him know that I thought he did very well. It takes a lot of balls to do what he did. More so when a person is shy, nervous and trying to approach attractive women who are surrounded by loud obnoxious men. lol I hope that will encourage him to approach people in the future. Though, I'm not entirely sure that everyone else is going to be understanding or welcoming. I guess he's lucky that the one female he decided to approach was the one with SA. ::
I told him that I wanted to find him on Facebook and I ended up forgetting his last name today. I'm going to feel like a jackass when I have to explain that to him the next time I see him.
We had just arrived at the bar, and this young man comes up to us, noticeably shy and a bit nervous. He asked if we would care to join him for some drinks as he didn't want to drink alone so I told him that he was more than welcome to join us.
We all got to talking and one of the first things he mentioned was that he is shy and that it takes him a while to warm up to people. Also, he made it clear that he doesn't like to be in crowded areas or around too many people he doesn't know. He didn't make much eye contact and he was nervous and a bit awkward, but he was able to keep a conversation going and he's very smart from what I could tell. I made sure to let him know that I thought he did very well. It takes a lot of balls to do what he did. More so when a person is shy, nervous and trying to approach attractive women who are surrounded by loud obnoxious men. lol I hope that will encourage him to approach people in the future. Though, I'm not entirely sure that everyone else is going to be understanding or welcoming. I guess he's lucky that the one female he decided to approach was the one with SA. ::
I told him that I wanted to find him on Facebook and I ended up forgetting his last name today. I'm going to feel like a jackass when I have to explain that to him the next time I see him.