anybody ever comfortable with silence?

[Darker Than Black]

I am, Kind of. Some times, I just don't feel like talking, especially when I have a migraine or I am very tired.

Some times I got nothing to say, not that I'm nervous or anything, I just got nothing to say to the other person...is this considered a kind of SA?

For some reason, everytime after a long talk with someone, I get a huge migraine, and it lasts till like the next day or longer....

 

[just_shadows]

usually, i am ok with silence.
and omg, i SO agree on feeling bad after long talks. i feel like... i need to be myself again, and sort things after long exposures :/

 

[Lorraine Manca]

yes. silence is equally important as words.

 

[Acme]

Silence is golden.

 

[Flowers-Of-Bloom]

I hate when people talk. Like they expect me to respond or something. It's so distracting, I'd rather be doing something else.

 

[Sinar_Matahari]

Silence is fine with me. I know there are people out there who find it boring but there are times when I am simply in a silent mood. I would rather eat my meals in silence but there are times when I am talkative.

I used to not feel comfortable being silent around certain boyfriends (alright, most boyfriends). I realized that I just did not have much in common with them so I was always afraid of saying something which they may have considered to be stupid. So I just remained silent. That wasn't a good silence though.

 

[Mikefly]

I am, Kind of. Some times, I just don't feel like talking, especially when I have a migraine or I am very tired.

Some times I got nothing to say, not that I'm nervous or anything, I just got nothing to say to the other person...is this considered a kind of SA?

For some reason, everytime after a long talk with someone, I get a huge migraine, and it lasts till like the next day or longer....

Sometimes im comfortable but mostly uncomfortable with silence not unless it's a closer friend or family member i don't really think about it. When meeting new people i hate being silent , especially on job sites when your trying to sell a job.

 

[dooby-duck]

I'm more comfortable with silence when talking face to face with people. However on the phone silences are a bit more difficult because you have to work out what to say quickly.

 

[flakeybark]

Yes. What's uncomfortable is trying to fill in the silence instead of just letting it pass.

 

[izzymarie]

I am. Most people aren't though, so I always feel like I have to have something to say anyway so they don't feel uncomfortable.

 

[philly2bits]

I'm comfortable with it for the most part. The only times I am uncomfortable is on the phone oe chatting on the internet, but thats because you're supposed to talk on the phone or internet.

 

[zlench]

Silence is golden but it's the uncomfortable silence that I hate when I with someone and don't know how to speak to someone.