am i a pervert?
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antihistamine
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anyone honest enough to come on to a forum and admit such "disturbing" thoughts has nothing wrong with them whatsoever!
OceanMist
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Actually yes, i have.
I'm just very confident in my heterosexuality. I've gotten partial erections before when I've been touched by a guy or been talking to a guy.
When I was in high school, I watched a little girl softball game and had sexual thoughts about some of them.
I've had all kinds of crazy thoughts, I think a lot of us have these thoughts every once in a while. I've fantasized about teenagers and women in their 50s. There really is no end to what I may think of when I think about people or am around people. Obviously, I've never really acted on these fantasies.
antihistamine your comment was interesting why do you say that? i'm sure pedophiles and perverted people post in forums to seek help (not many lol) but some... and thanks guys i will try to accept that i'm most likely normal but for some reason the thought keeps coming up
I think this is very true, too. I think that it's easy to say that EVERYBODY has had sexual fantasies and attractions that are as, if not more "bizarre" than the ones that you consider to be so unusual. It's all completely natural- it only becomes a problem when you lack the morality to act on something without someone's consent, or if they're a minor, etc. That's all a completely different matter- but just having those thoughts is completely normal.
I used to think the same thing mfs, in fact sometimes some part of me does tell me im a pedo every now and then, but not nearly as much as before (a year ago, im 19 now). It would be like tall 9th grade girls that looked my age that I would you know, be interested in, and that kind of freaked me out. Those thoughts just kinda went away though as I became focused on other things more.
Think about it like this: Hundreds of perfectly heterosexual guys go to a bar, pick up what they think is a fine sexy lady, which turns out to actually be a guy. It happens, people are attracted to a certain set of physical features, and it just so happens that sometimes they are found on a person our society (rightly or wrongly) or ourselves tell us is improper.
Think about it like this: Hundreds of perfectly heterosexual guys go to a bar, pick up what they think is a fine sexy lady, which turns out to actually be a guy. It happens, people are attracted to a certain set of physical features, and it just so happens that sometimes they are found on a person our society (rightly or wrongly) or ourselves tell us is improper.
i agree i mean i never find im attracted to any young person because they are young either but rather im attracted to a spectrum of ages and ppl young happen to be on it.... lately now i just think im going to be a bad person cause i dont like porn and all my friends do and pictures of attractive friends turn me on more... this is now what makes me feel guilty
I feel similar to your experience. Im in my late late 20s now but i still fantasize about the girls in my teenage years, crushes on girls that i could never get and masturbate to those memories. Teenage girls still turn me on even though most people say its wrong and pedophile/perverted. There is something about their innocence and youth that highly arousing. I had no idea what to do with a girl even if you placed one in my lap in my teen years, actually i still dont because im still a virgin believe it or not. If i ever do it for the first time with a woman id imagine myself stumbling all over myself trying to figure what to do, i mean im not a complete moron basically stick it in the hole but i imagine falling down a flight of stairs first. As for your gay experience, my bed pillow still gives me the same exact effect.
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Barry1979
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You are fine man you just have this : OCD without overt compulsions (Pure- O).
Purely Obsessional OCD - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Read, read, read that. The more you educate yourself about this, the better you will be equipped to deal with it. I know because I have been dealing with Pure - O for years.
Purely Obsessional OCD - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Read, read, read that. The more you educate yourself about this, the better you will be equipped to deal with it. I know because I have been dealing with Pure - O for years.
Barry1979
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Here is another that covers common intrusive thoughts in Pure-O.
PURE OBSESSIONAL OCD TREATMENT - OCD Center of Los Angeles
PURE OBSESSIONAL OCD TREATMENT - OCD Center of Los Angeles
Barry1979
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Well man I really do not want to alarm/make you worse .... I want to try and comfort you seeings how you are on a site like this asking for help/advice but in my opinion that is definitely NOT normal. I would talk to a therapist or something. People with OCD hate the thoughts they are having and know its irrational and do not not enjoy them at all. Sexual predetors enjoy the thoughts they are having and see nothing wrong with it....nor do they care if its wrong, you seem to be really bothered by them which leads me to think its just your OCD tricking you.....I really don't know.