I try not to, but its a bit like when you see a person in a prison outfit on, you can only think one thing
Exactly. She hasn't been with a man in years--you're sure to score!
I try not to, but its a bit like when you see a person in a prison outfit on, you can only think one thing
Hon, that's just the clothes. Clothes don't make a person. Don't judge people's accessibility based on what they wear.
Hon, that's just the clothes. Clothes don't make a person. Don't judge people's accessibility based on what they wear.
I feel that way myself, & I am one lol. But I don't feel that they're better than me, I feel that they think they are. When I'm around females my own age who are "normal" my anxiety just about peaks. I just feel more comfortable around males because females are so much more judgmental than they are. Or at least they are to other females. Even online, I'm afraid to talk to women. I don't have many online female friends & the one or two I do have make me incredibly nervous, purely because they're female lol.
I feel that way myself, & I am one lol. But I don't feel that they're better than me, I feel that they think they are. When I'm around females my own age who are "normal" my anxiety just about peaks. I just feel more comfortable around males because females are so much more judgmental than they are. Or at least they are to other females. Even online, I'm afraid to talk to women. I don't have many online female friends & the one or two I do have make me incredibly nervous, purely because they're female lol.
I'm not sure it's so much judging as it is just a feeling some of us get. Rationally I know that what you're saying is true, but it simply doesn't change the fact that I feel a lot less intimidated by a beautiful girl wearing jeans, a t-shirt/sweatshirt and her hair in a simple ponytail than I do by one who is all dressed up and looks like she just left a hair salon. I think sometimes women have no idea just how intimidating that can be (don't ask me why, I don't know, I'm just calling it as I perceive it).
Same here. I don't feel that they are better than me or even that they think they're better than me... I just feel so different from most of the women I've encountered that I'm not sure how to fit in with them.
I'm no tomboy, but I don't really feel that I have much in common with many women other than being a mother. The only people I really talk to besides family are a few friends that I have online, and they're all male.