man on the hill
Well-known member
Does anyone else feel like they are afraid of change, major or minor, in their lives? it seems im that way, its hard for me to change the way I am and the way I do things in my daily life. Its like my life has been stuck on "repeat" week after week, month after month for the past several years. im 24, still live at home, still single, work monday through friday and usually dont do anything worth mentioning on the weekends, almost just a waste of my spare time you could say. the guys at work ask me why dont I ever go out and do things, get a girl friend, party, etc., and I usually cant ever give a straight answer, just a "I dont know" most of the time. Ive been told that I better start getting out and doing stuff cause im gonna look back later on when im older and realize that I wasted one of the best times of my life by just sitting at the house. Honestly I dont know why I am like I am. maybe its because I think its just easier and simplier to just never go out and do anything different from my regular routine. I do get lonely very often and usually it leads me to feeling down and depressed about my self for a couple days during the week. and that in turns leads to just lower and lower self esteem to the point where now I feel so worthless that I dont even have the urge or will to even try to look for a girlfriend cause I feel like im just useless and a nobody and why would any girl want to go with me. if you seen me or knew me in person, you would think "how in the hell is this guy still single?" sorry for the long rant, I just needed to get this off my mind, I dont really express myself like this too often, even online on a forum like this.