zav943
Well-known member
Hey everyone,
New member here.
It's way past my bedtime (I have to get to work at 8:00 am tomorrow), but my mind is not at ease...
Background: I have four good friends at work and all of them are in serious relationships. Just yesterday, we were having lunch and for its full duration, all they talked about was how great their partners were.
Back home, the few friends that I'm in touch with are also in relationships (or at least in and out of relationships), one of whom I was very deeply infatuated with (until I found out she was dating someone I know).
It's stupid to get jealous of your friends - I know - but I couldn't help it lately...even if it's been 4 years since my last (and only) relationship.
Quite often, given the beautiful weather, I like to go on walks/jogs in the park, or shopping at the mall...and I see that at least 60% of the people my age walking around are holding hands with someone/are clearly attached to them.
I feel terribly left out, and I can't shake off the 'what's wrong with me?' line of thought.
I'm having a hard time focusing at work (which is a problem because I work with very tight deadlines) and I'm receding from what very little social life I have...
I need to deal with this in a timely way because my manager has started to see a slump in my performance...I can't just "wait it out". Is there anything I can do about this? Should I join a support group?
Thanks everyone!
New member here.
It's way past my bedtime (I have to get to work at 8:00 am tomorrow), but my mind is not at ease...
Background: I have four good friends at work and all of them are in serious relationships. Just yesterday, we were having lunch and for its full duration, all they talked about was how great their partners were.
Back home, the few friends that I'm in touch with are also in relationships (or at least in and out of relationships), one of whom I was very deeply infatuated with (until I found out she was dating someone I know).
It's stupid to get jealous of your friends - I know - but I couldn't help it lately...even if it's been 4 years since my last (and only) relationship.
Quite often, given the beautiful weather, I like to go on walks/jogs in the park, or shopping at the mall...and I see that at least 60% of the people my age walking around are holding hands with someone/are clearly attached to them.
I feel terribly left out, and I can't shake off the 'what's wrong with me?' line of thought.
I'm having a hard time focusing at work (which is a problem because I work with very tight deadlines) and I'm receding from what very little social life I have...
I need to deal with this in a timely way because my manager has started to see a slump in my performance...I can't just "wait it out". Is there anything I can do about this? Should I join a support group?
Thanks everyone!