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  1. AsTimeBurns

    ugh

    Thought I'd made peace with the fact that I'll always be alone; it wasn't bothering me much for the last year or so. But recently someone at work has been on at me constantly saying I should ask out a girl at work, this went on for months up till the point where I was about to do it, then he...
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    A little rant

    Just feel like a bit of a rant since i'm feeling quite down at the moment. Feel free to ignore it. So I'm 25 now, living at home with my parents still. Never had a girlfriend (never even kissed a girl...hell never even held hands with a girl or spent any time alone with one), don't have any...
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    Cognitive Behavioural Therapy

    My parents keep suggested it to me, but I don't really know much about it. Has anyone tried it? What sort of thing did it actually involve in your case? And did you find it useful at all? Cheers.
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    Career change

    So I feel like I need a career change already. Been working as a web devleoper for 6 months, but I can't take it much longer, it's so dull and the sitting staring at code for 8 hours a day is killing my head and neck and i'm always in a lot of pain most of the day. Problem is, I have no idea...
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    Procrastination

    Anyone? I've got so many things that I say to myself I'd like to do, but when it comes down to it I just end up sitting here listening to music and browsing forums, wasting the 4 hours or so after I get home from work, until I just go to bed and repeat the next day. I even took the drastic...
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    My situation - Advice?

    Right, the situation in a nutshell is this: I'm a very quiet person, very shy and find it hard to make friends and hold conversations with people usually. Apparently when I was younger I was quite outgoing, but as I grew older I became quieter. Now, I'm pretty sure I know the reasons for...
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    No Friends At All?

    People throw it around a bit: "i've got no friends", when in reality they do have 1 or 2 people they talk to or hang out with occasionally, even if it's a rarity. But does anyone else have literally no friends at all? I'm defining friend here as someone you would see/talk to/do something with...
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    Dating Sites

    Anyone tried them / had any luck with them? I've been a member on a few, but I find it quite difficult to know what to say to people. I feel weird and desperate enough as it is sending messages to random people that I don't know, but I never really know what to say to them either, so I just end...
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    :@

    Had an interview last week, everything went quite well, they said they were very impressed. Call today - technically very good, very impressed, not offering me the job because I was too quiet and not "energetic" enough, so I wouldn't fit in with them. :mad:
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    Making Friends?

    So since I left school I haven't really had any friends. I stayed in touch with 2 people from school, but they're off in other parts of the country enjoying their own lives nowadays, so I barely see them or speak to them. I have plenty of opportunities to make friends, because I'm at...
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    One thing i've noticed

    One thing I've noticed that happens a lot, especially if I have to do something where I know people are looking at me, is that my mouth starts to go quite dry, so I find myself constantly having to try and moisten it again, plus I sigh a lot because I'm not sure what to do with my breathing when...
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    Cognitive Behavioural Therapy

    Anyone had any experiences with this? Doctor suggested I try it, but I'm quite skeptical about it...
  13. AsTimeBurns

    Hello

    Don't know what to say really so "Hello" will have to do :eek:
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