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Yes- so I am not into him anymore. But I still get feelings. Because at work he can seem so normal. But I just dont get it. Why does he have to follow me on Facebook and yet when I look at his page- its all completely obsessed with women's faces - esp blonde women- and he follows blonde women...

I dont want to be seen anymore. I don't like going to work anymore- been getting intense dread feelings of going because I cant take what I look like in the mirror anymore. It sounds so silly, but its honest. And I am so irritable and want to try to change myself- but I end up hurting myself...

Do you have friends? ??????????????????

:sad: Ive lived a life of being un-social for over 15 years. And now, since I have for a nearly a year been social - by working in a social environment- I have come a long way- but now I feel like everything has been too hard and I want to retreat and hide once again. I dont know how to get...

- I really, really hate to admit it- because it is embarrassing and like an endless journey into insecurity, but I constantly feel like I just want someone in my life to give me re-assurance. Forgive me- this will probably be a little long.. and probably inappropriate -its kind of a rant XX...

So my posts are a little too random/complex and long- so I will try to keep things plain and simple : ) Have had a crush on a guy at work for 5-6 months. He invited me to new years- it was just us. Bought my meal and then he drove me around and we joked. Then went back to his place, watched...

Today at work I wanted to go up to my crush and thank him for asking me out (as friends I think it was) on new years and that I had fun. But guess what... I couldn't do it. And the reason was because Ive been all consumed in feeling ugly and not good enough to be attracted by him. I just...

Yep- So I felt a little paranoid about this on here - its silly but I did delete it! I appreciate your answer too. Very much. I am still confused - but Im not going to let that dictate my life this week ; )

Yeah- I am sure most of us do? What do you do when you feel so un-attractive because of a person's comments ?

Sorry this may be long - but I need to.. I just don't get it. I hate these feelings because they have been ripping me up inside for months and months (actually probably 5 months or more). Everytime I go to work, everytime Im not even at work too. I dont really even really know why i like him...

:thumbdown: Yep, So I know other people must experience this- but it really gets me some days. I recognise in myself as a person whom has been unsocial for so long has conversational *issues* a little- (meaning personally I quickly respond and over-talk in pauses and get really energetic in...

I really need some sound advice (once again). Im in tears after every time I see this person - because their not acting friendly enough or ignore me or dont seem to care if I go etc. Its just really, really, really getting to me - to the point where I feel like I have completely lost myself...

Its just really frustrating because Im pretty sure I come across as a bit fake and cold! I just find it really hard. So lets say there are times when I feel confident in who I am- but when I am around certain types of people (mainly males) I either -over- egotise myself and come off really cold...

Okay here goes, I want to know what you do to make yourself feel good and unique. I want to know anything that makes you feel confident, what you would do to have the best day you could ever imagine.

Going to write out *stuff* in here.. I need to vent so seriously that I feel like I am going to explode seriously!!:eek: Im going to write my heart out in here- it seems a little bit better than writing in my journal in Pages. It feels more cement and reflective. I like the auto-writing and...

Going into work tomorrow. I want to have a fun day. I am so sick and tired of this social phobia!!! Actually for me it more 'social phobia around guys':eek: I just feel I want to throw in the towel and not care what others think of me that much. Like can I have the mental strength to do that...

So I have edited this because I get paranoid as who can see it-

Hi guys, This might be long- so I apologise- A bit about me- I have had social phobia for a long time- I am in my early 30s and been a hermit for most of my 20s. Things are going okay now though- for the first time in my life I feel confident somewhat in working around people and actually...

I feel so embarressed about myself because i am 27 and still never had a job in my life. ::(: