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What's something that you did well today? It can be towards any part of your life, social, academic, health, personal, mental, spiritual... Today I was waiting at the tennis courts for a friend and I saw a guy carrying coolers toward the baseball courts, on his phone talking about how he has...

I'm too lazy to write my own write up but has anybody tried or experimented with "radical honesty" (I finally found a term for this yay) "Radical Honesty is a technique and self-improvement program developed by Dr. Brad Blanton.[1] The program asserts that lying is the primary source of modern...

I'm sorry if this is offensive to anybody. Please I need somebody's help/advice. My mother is very depressed and has a lot of issues from the past. So every day when I start a conversation with her, about something like how the day is, 2 hours later we're in a heated conversation about an...

what is an effective way to deal with the highly negative self talk that follow after an embarrassing moment?

I posted this on the wanting thread but I wanted to make it it's own thread becuase I'm really interested to hear everybody's answers. Say you're not motivated to change. You're in a rut, and no matter how much you try and pump yourself up about the changes you have to make, you always end up...

i'm sure if you clicked this you probably want to talk about what you're living for. Please feel free! But I also wanted to share this, It's a site that asks very core, important questions and then puts them together into an empowering personal mission statement, to clarify what you are living...

my friend just shared with me this amazing website that helps me stick to a task-list each day, tasksmash.com you create a list of tasks for the next day to be completed, and check them off once completed. When you check them off, the day on the calender turns green with a star (yay well done x)...

Do you live with anybody with your same problems? Depression, social anxiety, low self esteem, OCD, whatever is plaguing you? Maybe it's something more subtle, like trust issues. Does it help? Does it make it more of an obstacle? What does it do for you? Who has it? I am interested in reading...

In the evening when you're tired, turn off the computer, tuck yourself into bed with a good book, maybe put the blankets in the dryer for a few minutes before When you wake up, step outside onto your front porch and just feel the cool air in your lungs, put extra sugar in your coffee, or maybe...

I already posted a thread like this a few months back but there are new people so I'd like to repost it. If you have some history with mobility, share, I'd love to hear if anybody has similar past. What age were you and what effect do you think it had? Where were you most attached socially, and...

Do you consider yourself mentally ill? Why or why not, and if not what are you?

What keeps you, or has kept you, from developing depression? Or how have you pulled yourself out of depression? Be both general and specific. Example: "People, I hang out with friends every Friday", Thankyou!

It's been awhile since I've posted a thread. Throughout my life I've been bullied/hated, and emotionally neglected by my dad (who isn't an issue anymore because I don't see him), and mom. Older sister too, but I have learned to avoid that one by not speaking. (Younger sister is lovely and tries...

I don't know why I made this thread. I went to see a career.. youth... person, and to talk about a program that I wanted to get into today with him. Well, he was, as my youth worker put it, not "youth friendly", and I couldn't pinpoint what it was about him that made me soooooooooo anxious. I...

Does anybody else see a connection between nurturing yourself and your social anxiety? Do you neglect to treat yourself? Do you nurture yourself? (Examples: cooking a nice meal, giving yourself the day off, exercising, eating well, making your room cozy, baths, lighting a nice candle, manicure...

The chatbox is laggy and slow... So... I think we should start using the IRC chat instead of the chatbox (For all who do use the chatbox!!!) IRC chat is under "chat" just as chatbox is Erm... cough/... that is all

For me it began when I was on the bus around the age of 14, and pondered whether everybody else also spent the entire bus ride nervously stressing over the 'thank you' that one must say to the bus driver before stepping off. And you?

When you share them or display them? I realize that my shame isn't usually immediate around other people, but comes from regretting being a certain way. Lately the regret has been about me seeming overly happy in situations, but it was just how I felt, I felt happy and so acted as such. Now...

That feeling of.. "Yeah.. I have that, you can't reach me, only I can reach me! I'll push you away and you'll never catch me! I can't be seen.." A sad relief A defensive pride An excuse to not have to face that intimacy fear, the love-shyness Yes no? Pride is not the right word. I can't find...

Hello :) Lets brainstorm some positive phrases or realizations that we can repeat that can make us feel better about ourselves... Today Im really liking I do not exist as what people say I am Your turn!