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    Feeling sad and hurt....

    Recently, my friend had been released from prison. He vows to stay clean from using drugs and stay on the right path. I'm happy for him that he's doing well so far. Now he trying to rekindle his relationship with his ex-gf who is an alcoholic. At the time they were together, his drug use...
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    So I asked him about us dating

    We have been friends for a few years and do things together with our group of friends. One time recently, we went out to eat just the two of us. Then also, recently flaked out on me at the last minute about our plans without a legit reason for doing so. So then, I threw out the idea to him...
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    Friend is letting others taken advantage of him financially

    My friend works 2 jobs to support himself and has several friends who are on disability that he frequently pays for their meals dining out, other social events & giving them free transportation. The "friends" do have legit disabilities, I feel like he shouldn't make it his problem. It makes me...
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    Issues with intimacy in general (Family, Relatives, Friends, Dating etc.)

    since I was a young child, I had a poor connection with my parents. My childhood and teenage years were filled with feelings of lonliness and isolation. Even the connection I felt with my siblings were poor. I felt like a misfit, unseen and misunderstood. At a young age, I learned to shut down...
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    should I or shouldn't I voice my feelings to the dude who hurt me?

    k, this dude who called out on my feelings saying I was seeking attention because I was depressed because I didn't have any close friends. This same dude, he is now battling cancer. I found out through FB when his fiance sets up one of those fundraising page through a trusted organization to...
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    Is depression ever considered attention-seeking?

    I had expressed my feelings of depression to someone I had considered a friend. Instead of being supportive, he told me that I was seeking attention and only associates with friends who are positive and upbeat. After telling him this, he wanted nothing to do with me. Then society wonders why...
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    Would appreciate your opinions about the speech I'm going to give to the Judge.

    It's for my SSDI hearing. Soooo very nervous about speaking before the Judge. I live in the U.S. as I know there people around the world that post here and what we do in the U.S. another country may do things differently. I don't even know what to say, other than knowing to TELL the TRUTH. I...
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    Anyone else go through the day barely saying a word?

    That's me totally. I can go throughout the entire say saying little of anything to anyone. Most of my days are like this. I explained this to my counselor. I had always been like this. I don't know if a part plays the fact I'm hearing impaired. My hearing loss makes it difficult to...
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    What could be the cause of chronic thigh and knee pain?

    Its been going on for the past month. I don't recall falling and haven't seen any unexplained bruises. OTC pain meds aren't helping at all. The pain is in my left knee and thigh as I walk and can't run at all. I got a doctor appt. coming up.
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    Is it okay to tell his mom that I'm proud of him?

    I want to but don't want to sound lame. He's a full-grown man and has issues with drugs and used to bring me aound it and doing it in front of me. Well, after some time of giving my friend "tough love" sending him the message that I didn't want to be around it anymore, I gave him a *test*...
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    Why is it my mom acts like this?

    Anytime I talk to my mom about an issue, she turns the conversation onto herself and make it all about her. Like she downplays it as if I don't need any friends, just family. Even my cousins that live close and are near my age don't have anything to do with me which sucks. I hate living like...
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    applied for food stamps, now have questions

    I haven't heard from a caseworker yet. who should i contact with the questions I have or wait until someone contacts me? what if I mistakenly made an error on accident when filling the application out. It was done electronically and had somebody I knew help me as I have never done it before.
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    What things do you talk about with your bf or husband's mom?

    I hate being so aloof with her. She's always nice when I do talk to her. Hes not really my boyfriend, more of a friend. Our relationship is complicated. I do see his mom on occassion. I'd just wish I knew what to talk about with her. I prefer keeping my relationship with my friend private...
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    attend 1st AA meeting, doubt I'll be going back.

    After the first 10 minutes have passed, all I could think about was getting out of there when it was over. It was a large group. I had a difficult time hearing what most people were saying. it really sucks being partially deaf, and YES I do wear hearing aids. They can only help so much. I...
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    Extreme difficulty talking to men, what do Guys like hearing women talk about?

    As most of you know, I'm extremely shy, have little interests and hobbies and prefer staying home than going out. I'd love to have a good friendship with a man, if not a relationship. What it is that guys like hearing women talk about? Besides my dad and bro whom I'm not close to, I only have...
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