Actually, I've thought about this quite a bit over the last year or so. My bf of 2 years and I were introduced by a couple of our friends. Shortly after we started dating, apparently my bf asked his friend to be his best man at our wedding. This couple is now getting divorced. My bf no longer speaks to the guy, but my friend and I are on good terms. I have had a list of bridesmaids in mind for awhile now, but don't know what would happen on the guys' end...and, though I'd be okay with not having a big formal wedding, I felt like I missed out on that the first time around and would like to have a good one this time.