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DeadmanWalking

DeadmanWalking

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TheGirlInTheCorner said:
My date. After fifteen years of him flirting etc, I finally made my move on Friday and he was totally pleased. We met up tonight and talked and he asked me loads of stuff and told me loads of stuff. You know, like a normal date. Then he initiated that he didn't know what would happen with us. Yes all ok. Then he was saying that he didn't mind being single, quite liked it actually, but carried on asking me stuff. Then, it was obvious he was tired but didn't say, so I said I was and got up to leave. He did kiss me goodbye and wish me a good day tomorrow, but he didn't say anything about seeing me again and I feel like it was an end, that didn't even begin. I don't know what I said or did, or didn't say or didn't do or if he was just playing it cool. It doesn't make any sense to me why someone would seem so into me one minute and then like he couldn't wait to get rid of me. What did I do wrong?
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Don't be so quick to blame yourself. He said it himself that he didn't mind being single; you can't affect someone's mind or opinion. But, just because he doesn't mind being single, doesn't mean that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. I don't mind eating grapes; it doesn't mean that I love grapes, it just means that, it's not something that I would necessarily complain about were it placed before me. Wait a few days and see what happens. If you have his number, you could call him and set up a date yourself.
 
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TheGirlInTheCorner

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DeadmanWalking said:
Don't be so quick to blame yourself. He said it himself that he didn't mind being single; you can't affect someone's mind or opinion. But, just because he doesn't mind being single, doesn't mean that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. I don't mind eating grapes; it doesn't mean that I love grapes, it just means that, it's not something that I would necessarily complain about were it placed before me. Wait a few days and see what happens. If you have his number, you could call him and set up a date yourself.
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Thanks. It just seems that this is a recurring pattern for me, so I can't help feeling that it is something I am doing. I hate feeling this way and have no one to talk to about it.
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

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superfluouslyme said:
I'm feeling pretty good. My mom is starting a non profit organization to help people like us with social anxiety and phobia get through school and get jobs. (Yeah, she's the lady that was asking for opinions earlier.) She's hiring me at minimum wage to help her get all the paperwork done and research whatever needs to be done. So, for the short term, I have a bit of money coming in. And I'm doing something that I'm good at and will enjoy. I'm hoping this will help improve my self esteem and get me to the point where I'm actually more comfortable getting a job that deals with the public.
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That is quite incredible. Nice going, superfluous.

TheGirlInTheCorner said:
My date. After fifteen years of him flirting etc, I finally made my move on Friday and he was totally pleased. We met up tonight and talked and he asked me loads of stuff and told me loads of stuff. You know, like a normal date. Then he initiated that he didn't know what would happen with us. Yes all ok. Then he was saying that he didn't mind being single, quite liked it actually, but carried on asking me stuff. Then, it was obvious he was tired but didn't say, so I said I was and got up to leave. He did kiss me goodbye and wish me a good day tomorrow, but he didn't say anything about seeing me again and I feel like it was an end, that didn't even begin. I don't know what I said or did, or didn't say or didn't do or if he was just playing it cool. It doesn't make any sense to me why someone would seem so into me one minute and then like he couldn't wait to get rid of me. What did I do wrong?
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There could be a hundred reasons why he acted the way he did. Ask him some follow-up questions, like "did you enjoy our time together?" or something to that effect. See what his answers are. Maybe on date number 2, if there is one, you can see him open up a little more.
 
InvisaLady

InvisaLady

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Pretty good, I had a good day on Friday and did a lot of shopping without feeling panicky. My blood sugars have been running pretty even. It would be even better though if my Ebay and Etsy sales would pick up though!
 
Phoenixx

Phoenixx

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Tired, sore, and uncomfortable. Today was a long, kind of stressful day. Also, HOT. 96 degrees in the middle of the city! >.< Ugh, I can't stand this kind of heat unless there's a beach or pool involved, which there is not.

Oh and to top it off? I started my period today. On the hottest damn day of the week. Go figure. :rolleyes:
Idon'tcareifthisistoomuchinformation! XP
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

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Phoenixx said:
Tired, sore, and uncomfortable. Today was a long, kind of stressful day. Also, HOT. 96 degrees in the middle of the city! >.< Ugh, I can't stand this kind of heat unless there's a beach or pool involved, which there is not.

Oh and to top it off? I started my period today. On the hottest damn day of the week. Go figure. :rolleyes:
Idon'tcareifthisistoomuchinformation! XP
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You would enjoy it here, then: windy, raining, and chilly. Feel better, Phoenixx.
 
Srijita52

Srijita52

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TheGirlInTheCorner said:
My date. After fifteen years of him flirting etc, I finally made my move on Friday and he was totally pleased. We met up tonight and talked and he asked me loads of stuff and told me loads of stuff. You know, like a normal date. Then he initiated that he didn't know what would happen with us. Yes all ok. Then he was saying that he didn't mind being single, quite liked it actually, but carried on asking me stuff. Then, it was obvious he was tired but didn't say, so I said I was and got up to leave. He did kiss me goodbye and wish me a good day tomorrow, but he didn't say anything about seeing me again and I feel like it was an end, that didn't even begin. I don't know what I said or did, or didn't say or didn't do or if he was just playing it cool. It doesn't make any sense to me why someone would seem so into me one minute and then like he couldn't wait to get rid of me. What did I do wrong?
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I know some people who do such things, its not your fault. Don't be too hard on yourself. Maybe he doesn't want a relationship atm, maybe he has his own insecurities, there can be millions of other reasons. I agree with Mikey, asking him some follow up questions is a great idea. I hope things get better between you two.
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

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Phoenixx said:
^ Eh, windy and rainy certainly aren't my thing either, sorry. Chilly I don't mind as long as I'm able to dress warm and keep warm.
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Fair enough. You could always dress warm and watch some funny episodes of something here. In fact that's exactly what I might do.
 
lilmutegirl

lilmutegirl

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Tired and anxious. I have a lot to do tomorrow. Gonna have to get up early and work, then visit a friend and her baby, then class...
 
Jessica7

Jessica7

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My dog just jumped on top of me





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