lonely_drummer
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Anything in particular you are worried about?
How are you feeling?
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Anything in particular you are worried about?
this_portrait
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Kinda worried that trying to talk to this guy a lot (it's been once every day for the last 3 days) is driving him away. :/ That might just be all in my head, though.
Invisibleman
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oh no..no no no. I think im having another anxiety attack,I feel like im smothering,I feel trapped. im scared
this_portrait
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oh no..no no no. I think im having another anxiety attack,I feel like im smothering
I felt that way when I had two panic attacks this past summer. So not a good feeling. If talking helps calm you down, I'm all ears.
lonely_drummer
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arrrrggg, I know that feeling. The mind is playing tricks with you, just keep your cool. I know I know, easier said than done but I do understand how you feel, even somewhat. I just know the obsession can be quite unpleasant. I hope things work out for you!
lonely_drummer
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oh no..no no no. I think im having another anxiety attack,I feel like im smothering,I feel trapped. im scared
last week i had quite a few, i just feel a big glass a water and just lay down for a bit will usually work out best. Close your eyes and concentrate on breathing, somewhat meditate. You can pull through!
this_portrait
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Thanks, I'm trying. Kinda makes me wish I could go out for a walk right now, but it's too late and probably too cold for that.
MikeyC
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I hope it's not driving him away. Just do what you think is right and hopefully he'll respond.
MikeyC
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Hey Angel.Hello, Mikey, how's your day been? Filled with lots of epic metal I hope
My days are always filled with epic metal. Although today was about the hottest day of summer so far so it was too sticky for my iPod. I hope your day was great.I am feeling a little jealous/disappointed, though. On the drive back from work, I saw a really cute girl in a bikini walk by. She had a hot body and it makes me upset that I don't have the motivation or the raw willpower to get one. It would be nice to not feel intimidated at the beach, and to also have girls check me out instead of always the other way around. Sigh.
Shyangel
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Hey Angel.
I am feeling a little jealous/disappointed, though. On the drive back from work, I saw a really cute girl in a bikini walk by. She had a hot body and it makes me upset that I don't have the motivation or the raw willpower to get one. It would be nice to not feel intimidated at the beach, and to also have girls check me out instead of always the other way around. Sigh.
My day, or lack there of, was uneventful as best. I did do something I enjoy that I haven't done in a while, though. So, that was nice.
That sucks. I imagine you would die without your Ipod. lol
If your gonna be sad every time you check out someone, your gonna be sad all the time. lol But, seriously. I don't know why your not more comfortable, your a great guy who has alot of talent and personality, you have a chance with any girl if you ask me. You should talk about music. You love it so much it shows and woman are attracted to that. I'm sure you are checked out all the time, Mikey, I bet you just don't notice it.
MikeyC
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Yeah, my iPod rules and I love having all my music on it. They need to make one with a bigger capacity than 160GB, though. Mine is starting to fill up. What did you do that was nice?
I'm rarely sad about it, but I was when I checked her out because it made me think of the weight I've put on since September. I just need a spark...or a heart attack.If your gonna be sad every time you check out someone, your gonna be sad all the time. lol But, seriously. I don't know why your not more comfortable, your a great guy who has alot of talent and personality, you have a chance with any girl if you ask me. You should talk about music. You love it so much it shows and woman are attracted to that. I'm sure you are checked out all the time, Mikey, I bet you just don't notice it.
Thank you for the compliments.
Talent and personality won't get girls checking me out physically. Also it would be awesome talking about music to a girl. "Hey baby, check out this awesome brutal death metal! *headbangs*." ::
Shyangel
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Yeah, my iPod rules and I love having all my music on it. They need to make one with a bigger capacity than 160GB, though. Mine is starting to fill up. What did you do that was nice?
I'm rarely sad about it, but I was when I checked her out because it made me think of the weight I've put on since September. I just need a spark...or a heart attack.
Thank you for the compliments.
I know how you feel about the size thing. I'm always having to switch valuable songs off, because mines rather small. It takes me forever to decide.
I don't think a little weight gained makes you completely unattractive, unless the girls really superficial, in which case you don't want to do anything with her anyway. You have a very handsome face at the least, and I think your kind likable personality would attract them if nothing else. I see you and I just can't believe you have trouble with women.
Hahahaha! I really loled on that one! You should try it, you never know, it might work. I know there could be no better way to approach me. That's how I got in a relationship with my X actually, so, It can work. lol
MikeyC
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Yeah, I didn't want to do that, so I got the biggest one Apple have made. If they ever make a bigger one, I'll likely save up and get that. I hate having to decide what to put on and what to exclude.
It probably doesn't, but I know it's there and it upsets me that I do nothing about it, even though I know exactly what to do. Maybe I need a good kick in the head! And thank you for the nice compliments. :
: I do have trouble with women, but that's a conversation for another time, haha.Hmm, well, if I ever want to seduce you, I'll know what to say.
I think the amount of girls it'll work on is less than 1% so I'd have to be lucky! That's actually pretty awesome that you found your ex that way.
Shyangel
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Yeah, I didn't want to do that, so I got the biggest one Apple have made. If they ever make a bigger one, I'll likely save up and get that. I hate having to decide what to put on and what to exclude.
It probably doesn't, but I know it's there and it upsets me that I do nothing about it, even though I know exactly what to do. Maybe I need a good kick in the head! And thank you for the nice compliments. I do have trouble with women, but that's a conversation for another time, haha.
Hmm, well, if I ever want to seduce you, I'll know what to say.
I could always kick you in the head, if you would like? If that's what it takes to get you to stop hating yourself, I'd gladly do it. It would be kinda fun to. :
:lolJust be you, that's seducing enough
...flirtatiousness aside...I would seriously think most women would find it endearing, your probably right though. But it doesn't hurt to try. My X came up to me and starting talking, I barley responded, he set down next to me with his computer and started playing Sweet Child of Mine and started rocking out to it...I fell in love. lol
this_portrait
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I can't sleeeeeep again! >.<
MikeyC
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I think it would take more than a kick to the head to stop me hating myself, but it's nice of you that you would still want to try. Haha.I could always kick you in the head, if you would like? If that's what it takes to get you to stop hating yourself, I'd gladly do it. It would be kinda fun to. :
Just be you, that's seducing enough
My X came up to me and starting talking, I barley responded, he set down next to me with his computer and started playing Sweet Child of Mine and started rocking out to it...I fell in love. lol
Well, aren't you just too kind to me. :
: Haha it took a song for you to unwind with him. That's great. I should try that a bit more, somehow!
Shyangel
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I think it would take more than a kick to the head to stop me hating myself, but it's nice of you that you would still want to try. Haha.
Well, aren't you just too kind to me. :
Yeah, those were the good old days. I hope I can find someone like that I enjoy myself with again...
I hope it works out for ya, good luck! I don't think you need it.
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MikeyC
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I hope you do, too.
You're a good person and it'll be a tragedy if you don't.
Shyangel
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I hope you do, too.
Thanks, Mikey.