Another Interesting Poll Regarding Relationships, Choices

[voodoochild16]

For a what if question, one that is kind of not realistic at all but interesting to see results for, if you had the choice would you either wait 3 months to get into a relationship with someone who was outgoing and attractive, or if you could wait a year to go out with someone who was socially phobic like you and was attractive.. which one would you choose?. UPDATE: And I want to mention that I meant waiting 3 months, or 1 year without anything happening the the beginning. I mean being single for 3 months, or 1 year, for either or.

 

[Porto]

it would make more sense

3 months with SP

1 year with a non-SP

wich one is the blond? ^_^

 

[BlueDays]

I would wait any amount of time to have a relationship with a social phobic.
I would never want to have a relationship with someone who was "outgoing".

 

[1BlackSheep]

I would wait any amount of time to have a relationship with a social phobic.
I would never want to have a relationship with someone who was "outgoing".

Same here!!!

 

[voodoochild16]

I would wait any amount of time to have a relationship with a social phobic.
I would never want to have a relationship with someone who was "outgoing".

Same here!!!

Thank you guys, this made my day, I'm so glad i made this post.

 

[emre43]

I would wait any amount of time to have a relationship with a social phobic.
I would never want to have a relationship with someone who was "outgoing".

There are people without social phobia who prefer a quiet life.

 

[Rembrandt Broam]

1 year, probably. But it's difficult to say when it's a hypothetical person we're talking about because it really would depend on the person. I'd probably be more compatible with a socially phobic person, but then again I could meet a really outgoing person who I just clicked with.

 

[Porto]

have to say i'm introvert and i'm free...don't need to wait 3 months : )

 

[Pyrophosphate]

I would wait any amount of time to have a relationship with a social phobic.
I would never want to have a relationship with someone who was "outgoing".

What she^ said.

 

[MrJones]

I would wait all the years necessary being single and alone if that means I'll be with my perfect match.

 

[DeadmanWalking]

You know, for the person that I "love", I think I could wait a year. I've already waited 19 years::!

 

[Mickery]

I would wait a year for someone who is the opposite! Going for an SA person would either be a surrender or enabler, maybe a comfort thing at best. It is a phobia after all, nobody goes looking for one.

I'd like to be healthy and able to be myself and then find someone who is the same, or someone who is confident enough to help me break out of my shell a bit. No treading water, no giving up, no going backwards.

 

[Kiwong]

I would need to carefully consider whether entering into a relationship would improve my life, which is as uncomplicated as it has ever been.

 

[Cyanide2601]

I would wait any amount of time to have a relationship with a social phobic.
I would never want to have a relationship with someone who was "outgoing".

I am in a relationship with an outgoing now, and its hard. He is miserable if we stay in, i am miserable if we go out. He already cheated on me once, i know its just a matter of time now before he finds someone '''bubbly'' to be with. How i loathe that word.

 

[Rembrandt Broam]

I am in a relationship with an outgoing now, and its hard. He is miserable if we stay in, i am miserable if we go out. He already cheated on me once, i know its just a matter of time now before he finds someone '''bubbly'' to be with. How i loathe that word.

Yeah, "bubbly" makes them sound like they're frothing at the mouth or something.

 

[Cyanide2601]

Yeah, "bubbly" makes them sound like they're frothing at the mouth or something.

And sadly that is exactly how i see some people like that. Frothing at the mouth to shout their opinion about anything to anyone who will listen.