Srijita52
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I'm guessing the family gathering didn't go well? ::
Meh it was more of a mix really... There are always some people who never understand anything. But I'm lucky to have a very caring cousin who always has my back
How are you feeling?
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Meh it was more of a mix really... There are always some people who never understand anything. But I'm lucky to have a very caring cousin who always has my back
this_portrait
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Still feel all right. Hopefully this trip will give me the calmness my mind needs.
1BlackSheep
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Yes, sometimes a few days away is just what you need to relax your mind and give you some fresh energy!
KiaKaha
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That's really bad
Yeah, the poor people might end up being refugees in their own country if this keeps up. Thanks for the thoughts
1BlackSheep
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Do you live near Christchurch? If it's feasible, maybe you could get involved with the relief effort? Sounds like they could really use a hand!Yeah, the poor people might end up being refugees in their own country if this keeps up. Thanks for the thoughts
MikeyC
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I heard about the Christchurch earthquakes. Apparently there's minimal damage so far. That city is cursed or something.
Luckily your cousin was there. I can understand it was a mix but at least it was a little bit bearable.Meh it was more of a mix really... There are always some people who never understand anything. But I'm lucky to have a very caring cousin who always has my back
Flowers-Of-Bloom
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I feel stupid.
My disorders have really got in the way of my life. I'm supposed to be a straight A student, but I dropped out (again) this year because of my AvPD. I could have been so much smarter/talented if I had stayed in school. Now I have no future and I'm house-bound. Bleh.
Sorry for the self-pity, but that's how I feel. God, I'm such an idiot.
My disorders have really got in the way of my life. I'm supposed to be a straight A student, but I dropped out (again) this year because of my AvPD. I could have been so much smarter/talented if I had stayed in school. Now I have no future and I'm house-bound. Bleh.
Sorry for the self-pity, but that's how I feel. God, I'm such an idiot.
KiaKaha
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No I dont... I am in wellington which is further up...we get the odd one but nothing quite as bad as what they are getting. Yeah I may look into that, I dont have a lot of cash right now but I have a spare month to lend a hand ... If I spot an opportunity to get down there then I will be keen as to help out
MikeyC
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Can you get any professional help to combat your AvPD? I can tell you want to continue your good grades so that would be the first order of business. Sorry to hear you're feeling like that, though. :
:You're not an idiot.
MikeyC
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Look at you, the humanitarian! That's very selfless of you, mate. You should be proud of yourself.No I dont... I am in wellington which is further up...we get the odd one but nothing quite as bad as what they are getting. Yeah I may look into that, I dont have a lot of cash right now but I have a spare month to lend a hand ... If I spot an opportunity to get down there then I will be keen as to help out
MikeyC
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Sorry to hear that, BlueDays. :Lonely and bored.
Same as every other day.
Funny how some days it's harder to put up with then others.:
: If you're lonely you're more than welcome to chat to me.
BlueDays
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Sorry to hear that, BlueDays. :
I am in too much of a morbid mood to talk right now, but thanks anyway Mikey.
MikeyC
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I understand. Offer will still stand forever.
dottie
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feeling insecure. was out karaoking (watching) and boyfriend and i left early because i have to work tomorrow. as we were leaving he mentioned to our friends he would return to the party after dropping me off. he also volunteered to give the birthday lady a ride home (even though it was already arranged for other friends to do). he said it was because our friends asked him to earlier because they were tired. but all i know of this birthday lady (an aquaintance, friend of friends) are stories of how wasted she gets. i don't exactly trust her with my boyfriend because i don't know her and only hear stories. i want to trust my boyfriend but i have major trust issues with all humans. so i don't really feel comfortable about this. are they going back to her house and hanging out for her birthday afterward? yeah, he likes to play the good guy helping hand role but i don't like this.
yeah, i should talk to him about it but he's out now and i have to work all day tomorrow. so i get to have this stewing in my head. fun.
eta... i never know if i am being "crazy" or "paranoid". is this so unreasonable?
yeah, i should talk to him about it but he's out now and i have to work all day tomorrow. so i get to have this stewing in my head. fun.
eta... i never know if i am being "crazy" or "paranoid". is this so unreasonable?
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1BlackSheep
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I live in "earthquake country" and have been through a big one, so know how scary it is. You definitely don't need cash to help out as there's always work to be done! It's a great way to meet other like-minded people too!No I dont... I am in wellington which is further up...we get the odd one but nothing quite as bad as what they are getting. Yeah I may look into that, I dont have a lot of cash right now but I have a spare month to lend a hand ... If I spot an opportunity to get down there then I will be keen as to help out
1BlackSheep
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Ugh - not fun at all. This kind of thing is why I seem to do better being single. Hope it turns out be nothing!
MikeyC
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This is a tough one. Mentioning anything to your boyfriend will show to him that you don't trust him, when you do. It's a matter of what you say.
I'm sure it's okay. He told you what he was going to do. If he was cheating he'd tell you a lie. You'll be fine.
this_portrait
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I'm having a hard time sleeping because I'm wide awake from taking a nap earlier in the day. Stupid fluoxetine. Only one more day of this and I'm switching to taking it at night!