Post your random thoughts/feelings etc

[Beatmetrics]

Maybe I need to start acting as if I'm jealous...Start arguments that don't mean much and make no since of why i got angry...start accusing false-fully...the maybe you'll believe me more...i'm not going to but that was a random thought.

 

[stevelee24]

lonely lost and desperate

 

[Silatuyok]

So today a funny thing happened. I went to a sheltering symposium, and met up there with a few people from work. Yeah, it was scary, haha. I sat down at a table with two girls I work with and was managing to be a part of the conversation and all. Then, another woman who works at the shelter, but who I have never talked to before, comes up and sits next to me at the table. We were all remarking on how tired we were and how we wished that they had provided coffee for us, and so on. So she announces that she's going off in search of coffee....several minutes later she comes back with three coffees....and hands them to the other two girls and keeps one for herself. I was just like, ummmmmm, okay? No coffee for Marie.

 

[MikeyC]

So today a funny thing happened. ... several minutes later she comes back with three coffees....and hands them to the other two girls and keeps one for herself. I was just like, ummmmmm, okay? No coffee for Marie.

That's not funny! That's mean and insensitive. Sorry to hear that. ::

 

[Silatuyok]

That's not funny! That's mean and insensitive. Sorry to hear that. ::

Well, it was kind of funny to me because I honestly don't think she meant to blow me off like that...it was just like, she didn't personally know me, so I was somehow invisible to her. It wasn't until one of the other girls offered their coffee to me that she actually seemed to notice that I was part of the group. She still didn't say anything about it or apologize, but I think it was more awkward for her than it was for me.

 

[MikeyC]

Well, it was kind of funny to me because I honestly don't think she meant to blow me off like that...it was just like, she didn't personally know me, so I was somehow invisible to her. It wasn't until one of the other girls offered their coffee to me that she actually seemed to notice that I was part of the group. She still didn't say anything about it or apologize, but I think it was more awkward for her than it was for me.

Hmm, fair enough. Hopefully she'll learn her error and get you a coffee next time. As long as you're okay with that, too...I've been forgotten like that before and it sucks.

 

[BiWinning]

Remembering things I've said, I'm surprised I haven't been e-punched in the face yet.

 

[Blabla..]

I want to reply to all the threads but i can't find anything to say !!

 

[alwaysrunning]

.....and i have succeded at making the free loading old wierdo who stays at my apartment w/o paying rent, feel uncomfortable...all thanks to my advanced collection of death metal i keep on my i tunes library. =)

my inner bitch is not something u want to deal with

 

[DeadmanWalking]

Why do some people find blushing and, by extension, innocence to be cute? I'm guilty of it as well, but I don't really have an explanation for it. It's really bugging me.

 

[alwaysrunning]

^^^
I wish i knew the answer to that, perhaps if I knew I could learn to use it to my advantage.

 

[Beatrice]

Why is it that when attractive people post their pictures (especially more than one time), they're considered vain for it, but when "average" people post theirs it's fine?

Also, why is it considered vain to take pride in your appearance and not be afraid to say you know you are attractive? The definition of vanity is technically "excessive pride" in one's appearance. There's a difference between happy with your looks and not afraid to say it, and being obsessed with it. Besides, fake humility is, well, fake. If you know you're attractive, don't pretend you think you aren't. Just say thank you to the compliments.

That said, I'm gonna cruise on over to the girls' picture thread and post

 

[alwaysrunning]

^^^ Like =)

 

[Beatrice]

^^^ Like =)

Haha thank you ::

Really people, think about it! Makes no sense.

 

[DeadmanWalking]

Haha thank you ::

Really people, think about it! Makes no sense.

I guess it's because when attractive people do it, the insecurities and inadequacies of others are brought to the forefront and so calling it "vain" is a good way to get them to stop, or discourage them from doing it further. When an average person does it, nobody's worried about anything since they can/do look much better than them, so if they (an average person) flaunts their looks, they (the other person) can "outdo" them, so to speak. I don't know, I've never been that hung up on looks. But, nice point you brought up!

 

[Beatrice]

I guess it's because when attractive people do it, the insecurities and inadequacies of others are brought to the forefront and so calling it "vain" is a good way to get them to stop, or discourage them from doing it further. When an average person does it, nobody's worried about anything since they can/do look much better than them, so if they (an average person) flaunts their looks, they (the other person) can "outdo" them, so to speak. I don't know, I've never been that hung up on looks. But, nice point you brought up!

Heh, that's what I was thinking, but I didn't want to say it because I thought it sounded kind of snotty I guess. But I think you're right.

 

[Blabla..]

I always get intimidated by the looks of others , but i fight it by letting go and commenting on their picture , positively

 

[WeirdyMcGee]

bahahaha! XD
Heather runs so strangely~ maaaan... I forgot how bad the voice acting was in this game! ::
A 17 year old girl who sounds like she hasn't hit puberty yet, and calls her father 'daddy'. pshhhh ><
(maybe other than me-- it's unrealistic. who does she think she is?! me?! I'm me!!)

 

[KiaKaha]

Why is it that when attractive people post their pictures (especially more than one time), they're considered vain for it, but when "average" people post theirs it's fine?

Also, why is it considered vain to take pride in your appearance and not be afraid to say you know you are attractive? The definition of vanity is technically "excessive pride" in one's appearance. There's a difference between happy with your looks and not afraid to say it, and being obsessed with it. Besides, fake humility is, well, fake. If you know you're attractive, don't pretend you think you aren't. Just say thank you to the compliments.

That said, I'm gonna cruise on over to the girls' picture thread and post

You're absolutely right. There is nothing wrong with being attractive and taking pride in it, just like any other natural quality such as an athletes endurance or a skilled musician. A lot of it stems from jealousy... which I admit I am sometimes (who doesn't want to be attractive?). I think the line needs to be drawn when jealousy stems to resentment...that to me is unfair..just as an unattractive person gets judged negatively, so too can an attractive person.. I also think attractive females, particularly those with social anxiety have it really bad... ever been mistaken for stuck up when really you are just shy? I think being misunderstood is a gateway to depression or worse. One thing that does annoy me a bit though, is when attractive people call themselves ugly, when they know they arent...sure they may 'feel' ugly occasionally but they are far from it, I see it as just seeking attention.

Just my opinion.

 

[superfluouslyme]

I'm still awake. Yay.