easier being female
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no1
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Dude, Juggalo.
Don't beat yourself up man. you're not "submissive". You're just so calm that it bothers people because you aren't as high strung and as tense as they are, so they keep tryin to get a rise out of you.
you may want to work at it though.
The sympathetic system reacts to stress by creating more stress, ie tension, and a rush, excitation, etc.
Relaxation as a stress response on the other hand is characteristic of the parasympathetic system.
A lot of men just don't understand that. And they would make you look ridiculous by making you out to be a "submissive person" and sayin **** like "DO SOMETHING!" etc. "HOW YOU GONNA JUST TAKE THAT".
You know what I mean? So even if you just act calm and collect, it's not good enough for them.
You see above the situation. You see the way they act as faulty, and don't want to participate. It is BENEATH you.
I guess my advice is, if you want people to stop immediately, give them a taste of their own medicine. Learn how to **** with them the way they **** with you.
If you keep doing it the way you do it the parasympathetic way, they might not give in immediately but eventually will.
Regards
Don't beat yourself up man. you're not "submissive". You're just so calm that it bothers people because you aren't as high strung and as tense as they are, so they keep tryin to get a rise out of you.
you may want to work at it though.
The sympathetic system reacts to stress by creating more stress, ie tension, and a rush, excitation, etc.
Relaxation as a stress response on the other hand is characteristic of the parasympathetic system.
A lot of men just don't understand that. And they would make you look ridiculous by making you out to be a "submissive person" and sayin **** like "DO SOMETHING!" etc. "HOW YOU GONNA JUST TAKE THAT".
You know what I mean? So even if you just act calm and collect, it's not good enough for them.
You see above the situation. You see the way they act as faulty, and don't want to participate. It is BENEATH you.
I guess my advice is, if you want people to stop immediately, give them a taste of their own medicine. Learn how to **** with them the way they **** with you.
If you keep doing it the way you do it the parasympathetic way, they might not give in immediately but eventually will.
Regards
no1
Banned
Sometimes you just don't care. You know what's right within you and you don't have to make a big scene and display just to get people to see what isn't already obvious, or because they believe in something stupid in shallow. You just don't care. you know inside what's right and you're not going to waste your damn time takling **** and all.
Then you blow up because they pushed you too far. And they called that "passive aggressiveness".
It's just that, like a lot of people, sometimes and mostof the times humans don't want to do things unless they feel forced to.
no1
Banned
Submissive is more like running away.
Well I think I see what you mean, another can be running away in their heads not react.
dat cat nikko
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70% of all woman are complex and alot of times dumb creatures who dont regornize good men.a quiet,shy guy they reject who is mostly smart,intelligent and nice but dem talking mutha****ers whos blablabla all day like females dem self,they like dem because woman likes blabla alot,but there are some good,intelligent and sharp woman out there thats reqornize a good man but i think they only 30% so they be hard 2 find.GOOD LUCK
^^You really enjoy posting that, don't you?
Do you have a source for this statistic? To say that most women are dumb seems like an unfair generalization to me...
Phil_i
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lurknomore obviously doesn't know how to regornize good men. :
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shore_of_glass
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dat cat nikko, nothing against you, but try to write with more coherence, thats quite hard to read. oh and, nice copy pasta
I can't disprove that statistic and I can't prove it either. What I do know is that most people will filter ugly people off of their intimate lives, even if they seem to be caring, loyal, smart and all that ****. Its rather cruel, but of course, there are individual standards as well.
Not very sure about the shy part though, maybe social pressures won't let women choose that kind of guy, seems quite stupid to me.
I can't disprove that statistic and I can't prove it either. What I do know is that most people will filter ugly people off of their intimate lives, even if they seem to be caring, loyal, smart and all that ****. Its rather cruel, but of course, there are individual standards as well.
Not very sure about the shy part though, maybe social pressures won't let women choose that kind of guy, seems quite stupid to me.
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It's also a bad generalization to assume that just because a guy is quiet, and shy that he's automatically a good guy that's intelligent and nice. Yeah that's right I said it lol.
shore_of_glass
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Probably. But 70% of men are dumb creatures without the complexity
ahaahah, somewhat true xD
lurknomore obviously doesn't know how to regornize good men. :
how does one regornize?
shyness is generaly a result of fear of being rejected, looking bad, and all that. That increased fear implies a bigger sensitivity, and thus people assume it's a better person. Of crouse it isn't ALWAYS true.