Easy. Secondary school: bullies and teachers. I was shy before I went to that school, but I certainly didn't have any problems around people that I was familiar with. Bullies are obvious - they liked to beat up my friends and me because we were different to them. They wore hoodies instead of their full school uniform and had those so-called "tramline" haircuts (no offence to anybody here that might wear hoodies and have haircuts like that!), and we - well, we didn't.
The teachers are just as much to blame for allowing it to happen. One time I was hit by a bully, and having seen it a teacher did nothing. On another occasion, I was hit very hard indeed, so I had to go home. My parents were on the warpath, because they're great like that about bullies, and this is what the deputy head told them - if I took steps to change how I look, then I wouldn't stand out as a target. I didn't take his rubbish advice, why should I have? But that did make me feel absolutely awful about it, and I have ever since. I just don't want to change how I look to be like all the people that I've ever hated.
My favourite one of all, one time a popular girl didn't seem to want us within a 10 metre radius of her in the classroom, even though no other computers were working, so guess what? The teacher, to try and get in with the popular kids by picking on us, like most of the others, made us move instead of telling her to stop being so rude. What did I learn from that? Don't bother with people I don't like, and don't like people that don't like me. So now I keep myself completely to myself, I don't tell people in real life things about me, and I always worked alone in group projects, even if that meant I had to do four times the work.
The P.E. teachers were the absolute worst - they seemed to believe that because we were bad at P.E. and had no sporting talent whatsoever, that we must be terrible at every other subject. I'd like to think that there's no truth in that at all, but whatever. It's been a long time since I left that place. My brother goes there now, he has a tough time there. I think it's an awful school, and I would take the first chance to discredit it.
I don't blame my family, but it might also have something to do with my dad. He probably has social anxiety himself, and he was always my role model when I was growing up. I could have picked up certain things from him like not liking talking on the phone.