tooshytosay
Well-known member
In saying this I'm not trying to be "superficial";
But I just feel that a lot of our efforts to overcome SA is hampered by society itself.
You see it kind of goes like this: if you were just a random joe no-body it's difficult for you to get "practice" being with people because well, there is no reason for people to be persistent with you. They'll be like, "hey, there are plenty of people in this world without SA, let's go hang out with them instead". Or just deal with you with the attitude of "ugh, yet another socially incompetent jerk, quit wasting my time".
But if you were a multi-billionaire and was very attractive, granted people will flock to you for all the wrong reasons -
But still, the point is that all the while you get plenty of constructive social "practice" and exposure, curing you of your SA. People won't trample you down as you slowly crawl out of your shell - because they would have a vested interest in you being social with them. You would "learn the ropes", in a "supportive" environment, so to speak.
But I just feel that a lot of our efforts to overcome SA is hampered by society itself.
You see it kind of goes like this: if you were just a random joe no-body it's difficult for you to get "practice" being with people because well, there is no reason for people to be persistent with you. They'll be like, "hey, there are plenty of people in this world without SA, let's go hang out with them instead". Or just deal with you with the attitude of "ugh, yet another socially incompetent jerk, quit wasting my time".
But if you were a multi-billionaire and was very attractive, granted people will flock to you for all the wrong reasons -
But still, the point is that all the while you get plenty of constructive social "practice" and exposure, curing you of your SA. People won't trample you down as you slowly crawl out of your shell - because they would have a vested interest in you being social with them. You would "learn the ropes", in a "supportive" environment, so to speak.