Would you go on a date even with SA?

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Let say you meet this great woman/man and you both like each other.....do you go on a date? Where do you take her/him? Im in this situation ....I really think im just gonna say "fudge it" and take her out. AHhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh crappp
 
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Aletheia

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Films are good: in the dark, no one can see that you're nervous.

Go for coffee or something afterwards, so that you'll have a chance to get to know each other better, but the film will give you something to talk about.
 
DeadmanWalking

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The (very few) times I've been out on a date with a woman usually weren't anything mind-blowing. I think just taking her to someplace nearby, like the park, or taking her out to eat would suffice. Although, I would advise you get input from more than one person as I probably have no idea what I'm talking about::p:.

As for myself, yeah, I could go out on a date. I'd be moderately awkward about it, but I would still try to be as true to myself as I possibly could. So, take her out on a date:)! Good luck to you!
 
Aletheia

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Oh, and go you!

That's awesome that you've met someone, and that you're braving a date!

Tell us how it goes.
 
Invisibleman

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I cant imagine going out on a date. Not only would the awkwardness be unprecedented,im one of the most boring guys imaginable.And then of course my confidence isnt that high so....
 
KiaKaha

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Surprisingly I feel I am actually quite good at going on dates. If I ever get to the point where a girl actually WANTS a date with me, then it kind of boosts my confidence...because she likes me enough to actually want to know me better. A yes to a date is half the battle already won.
I can tell you are nervous about it (understandably)... Just think of something to talk about beforehand and let the conversation flow. Coffees always work well for me...going for walks is quite nice too.

You'll be fine. ;)
 
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MR.Wonderful said:
My head: :D:eek::D
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ShyKiwi said:
Surprisingly I feel I am actually quite good at going on dates. If I ever get to the point where a girl actually WANTS a date with me, then it kind of boosts my confidence...because she likes me enough to actually want to know me better. A yes to a date is half the battle already won.
I can tell you are nervous about it (understandably)... Just think of something to talk about beforehand and let the conversation flow. Coffees always work well for me...going for walks is quite nice too.

You'll be fine. ;)
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To tell you the truth I am 100% confident with her. What makes me uncomfortable is the other people around. Mehhhhhhhhh
 
MikeyC

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Aletheia said:
Films are good: in the dark, no one can see that you're nervous.

Go for coffee or something afterwards, so that you'll have a chance to get to know each other better, but the film will give you something to talk about.
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Exactly this. Dinner and movie could work, too. That way it's not constantly about having to talk...the movie fills in half the date for you! ;)
 
coyote

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going to a gallery opening or exhibit is fun, because as you walk around and share your thoughts about the pieces on display, it can open up a wide range of topics and lets you get to know the other person

live music or a performance of some kind is also good - afterward you can discuss how certain songs made you feel, and it really opens the conversation up to making personal connections
 
this_portrait

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Well, I've gone out on a date with SA multiple times before, so I could do it again. As for where we would go, eh, I'm sure we'd come up with something.
 
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Yeh... I met my current bf online was much easier.
Scary part is he is really outgoing! He works in radio! I am yet to meet his mates i'm
Soo scared i don't want to be shy but i know I will be.
 
OceanMist

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Yes, I've gone on a date with SA, multiple ones with the same girl. She made it easy by initiating conversation and being a good convo leader.

I am looking forward to dating again, i am currently on an online dating site. It's been very difficult, because I haven't gotten one date. I need to get a clearer picture on my profile and I need to keep trying. Maybe the new picture thing will help.

Even online I don't know how to converse on a consistent level. I chatted online with a couple women, but that never went anywhere.

I'm having trouble finding a woman who actually lives in my city.
 
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Silatuyok

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If you guys are outdoorsy, maybe you could just take a walk or go for a hike. That was always my first choice, as it doesn't involve sitting down across from each other, and you can have a conversation without having to worry too much about maintaining eye contact. Also, the changing scenery may bring up more topics to talk about.
 
ERose

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MR.Wonderful said:
To tell you the truth I am 100% confident with her. What makes me uncomfortable is the other people around. Mehhhhhhhhh
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Try not to let the other people around bother you, you just have to remember at the end of the day it's you and her. It sounds as if you really like her as you feel 100% confident, that's a good thing.

I hope it goes well, whatever you choose just make sure it's something you'd both enjoy and something you can see yourself doing.
 
WeirdyMcGee

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ahhh... dating isn't my thing.
I feel like I'm totally fine not dating for at least the next 12million years.

haha
 
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Silatuyok

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aftermidnight said:
Might be a little too soon if she was factoring leap year days into the 12 million years. Not to mention that a year might be a bit longer 12 million years from now. Sorry brah, it's science.
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I don't see what leap year days have to do with anything. The extra day every four years is only so that we don't have to add an extra 1/4 day to the end of each year. It's not like all the leap days add up to extra years or anything.
 
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