Before I delve into the question I pose I need to get something off my chest. I consider myself an introvert that is a quiet person who only very rarely likes to go out with a few friends that I do have. It's not that it bothers me talking to people or going out with friends, it's just I feel having a good home, good food, and a job as a substitute teacher is enough to make me happy. I just don't have a ton to talk about so it gets socially awkward at times. At times if the conversation is something I'm interested in I seem to hold a conversation fine, but when the topic under discussion ends then it get socially awkward. I'm a person that is very very unselfish that never ever asks nor wants things from people because I understand there are people in this world that have none of that. I just feeling relaxing at home is better because I value my independence. So now to the question I asked.
I really want to go out on a date with a girl and I recently signed up on Saturday on POF.com and eVOW.com which are 2 dating sites. But here is my issue guys and would appreciate it if someone could give me good advice about it. My only fear going out with a girl is if she thinks I'm weird for only having 2 friends that I will quite rarely go out with. I personally don't think it's fair if a girl judges me based on that as long as I was nice to her and treated her well and attempted to make her laugh. I personally feel I might be more willing to go out with someone I'm in love with as opposed to my friends because I would deem a girl more important to me. At the same time my number one preference would be to sit home with my girl and cuddle and watch a movie, but I fear my girl would grow bored with me quickly. I think the funny thing you should know about me is I love to play drinking games but mostly with my brother and sister and not my friends. And when my brother and sister have friends over I can go haywire on the liquor to a point where people question how in the world is this kid quiet and an introvert who doesn't want to go out much. Still the question I want to ask you guys would you think a girl would not go out with me if she knew that some of my best friends were my brother and sister and their spouses? I mean I feel like I can't be loved, but I'm a good person and I wish a girl would at least give me a try because I feel I can make them laugh. Tell me what you think.
I really want to go out on a date with a girl and I recently signed up on Saturday on POF.com and eVOW.com which are 2 dating sites. But here is my issue guys and would appreciate it if someone could give me good advice about it. My only fear going out with a girl is if she thinks I'm weird for only having 2 friends that I will quite rarely go out with. I personally don't think it's fair if a girl judges me based on that as long as I was nice to her and treated her well and attempted to make her laugh. I personally feel I might be more willing to go out with someone I'm in love with as opposed to my friends because I would deem a girl more important to me. At the same time my number one preference would be to sit home with my girl and cuddle and watch a movie, but I fear my girl would grow bored with me quickly. I think the funny thing you should know about me is I love to play drinking games but mostly with my brother and sister and not my friends. And when my brother and sister have friends over I can go haywire on the liquor to a point where people question how in the world is this kid quiet and an introvert who doesn't want to go out much. Still the question I want to ask you guys would you think a girl would not go out with me if she knew that some of my best friends were my brother and sister and their spouses? I mean I feel like I can't be loved, but I'm a good person and I wish a girl would at least give me a try because I feel I can make them laugh. Tell me what you think.
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