Why most guys disgust me! (PS I’m a guy)
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iamthenra
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Alright my problem with most guys is this: they try too hard to show their “manliness”. Example: “Yo dude check out that bitch she’s so ****ing hot I would pee in her butt or pork her or do her” or whatever the ****. I feel like guys feel as though they have to show off that they like girls or whatever, it’s annoying and it makes me uncomfortable especially when they feel its okay to do/say this in public places. It also pisses me off because I know that if the girls heard them say that they wouldn’t think it was a complement and I’m pretty sure they would say what a pig and be disgusted at them... It also terrifies me to think that almost all males, young and old, do this being that I have heard inappropriate things from a lot of my uncles and a few other older men... I sometimes ask myself “Am I one of a few males who truly has respect for women? “
Another thing that annoys me is when guys decide to say something like men are smarter than women; I have heard this one at least 5 times! Ughhh I don’t know maybe I’m just not as testosterone filled as the average male but honestly I don’t really get along with them, a lot of them seem to be arrogant, over-confident (a dick) and selfish. When people say girls are more vicious than guys because they attack with words well guess what guys are just as bad! 95% of the taunting I have ever experienced has been from males.
On a side note: What the hell is up with guys being like men drink beer and pussies drink mixed drinks/coolers!!! Personally I don’t drink but why does it matter???!!! If I did drink I would definitely drink coolers because they actually taste good compared to beer...God damn it society is sooo stupid! I’m glad I’m an outcast...
Anyways this rant needs to end so yeah thanx for reading.
Don't worry... I am right there with ya my friend. When I have a drink, I like those happy fruity drinks too.. Give me a pina colada or strawberry daiquiri any day! Although I do drink beer on occasion and captain cokes too... But I know exactly what you mean about showing respect for everyone, that is deserving... (If you know what I mean by deserving...)
2Crowded
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Im a lady respector as well...i used to have a friend that would whistle & holler suggestive coments at girls walking down the sidewalk when we were passing by in his car...I hated it..made me feel embarrassed & bad for them every time...I literaly didnt want to be in the same car with him when he did this....just is so disrespectful & degrading to me...& man pigish..decent men dont do that crap because they know it's disrespectful.
Lots of men are insecure. They try anything they can to prove to other men that they are a "man". I find alot of it stupid and unnecessary. I get sick of all the bullshit sports talk, beer drinking talk, and how many women they have had sex with. 9 times out 10 its all lies.
Also, men like to "test" one another with a stare down game. I usually let this slide cause I am 29 yrs old now and not some ****en kid. But everyone once in awhile I feel like wailing on some guy cause he has to be insecure, and therefore makes other men uncomfortable.
Also, men like to "test" one another with a stare down game. I usually let this slide cause I am 29 yrs old now and not some ****en kid. But everyone once in awhile I feel like wailing on some guy cause he has to be insecure, and therefore makes other men uncomfortable.
no1
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typical douchebag behavior
Well first off.. these are guys who would probably get ladies' attention more often because they are more "IN YOUR ****ING FACE!!!!!!" and.. the more "aggressive" you are, the more "common" it becomes, and the more accepted it becomes, and thus, the more women will buy into it as being "manly" traits, etc.
And, these same kinds of guys will also try to steal attention away from you, and get in your way.
Why can't we talk about this Barry? We are talking like normal people. Caring about ourselves? That also necessitates that we feel comfortable within our environments and the people surrounding us, so why not reach out for some guidance as to deal with this situation? We ARE talking about this because we care about ourselves. Why? Because this affects us.
DUH!
Well first off.. these are guys who would probably get ladies' attention more often because they are more "IN YOUR ****ING FACE!!!!!!" and.. the more "aggressive" you are, the more "common" it becomes, and the more accepted it becomes, and thus, the more women will buy into it as being "manly" traits, etc.
And, these same kinds of guys will also try to steal attention away from you, and get in your way.
Why can't we talk about this Barry? We are talking like normal people. Caring about ourselves? That also necessitates that we feel comfortable within our environments and the people surrounding us, so why not reach out for some guidance as to deal with this situation? We ARE talking about this because we care about ourselves. Why? Because this affects us.
DUH!
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Its all bullshit though, most men I have known put on an act. They engage in typical male activites or talk like a filthy dog in order to gain acceptance by other men. Men try to find ways to prove themselves, but not alot know that you can be a man in many ways, you dont have to act like other men to achieve it.
Thats why I like that I can be my own man, and I know others are like this too and I tend to respect them alot more.
Thats why I like that I can be my own man, and I know others are like this too and I tend to respect them alot more.
no1
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who said anything about not liking sports, and drinking beer?
it's when your whole life revolves around it. And so what if you dont like any of them? it doesn't make you any less of a man!
and for real... sometimes there are way more important things to worry about and do, and more productive as well then talking about who won in a game that doesn't really amount to much.
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I understand and thats completely fine. If someone enjoys something that is alright, but theres alot of phonies who do it only to fit in, to become a "man" in other mens eyes.
I really dont care what other men do in their time, but it does impact other men. The more and more this is seen as a way to be accepted it causes insecurity and pressure to those who dont engage in these activities.
Reiji Moritsugu
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Since you seem to be unaware of it, I´ll tell you. There is nothing wrong with those things in themselves, what is wrong is that most guys who like that kind of stuff, are the most intolerant people to have ever disgraced this planet. They really believe everyone else should like to do the exact same things they do, and look down on those who actually like different stuff and deviate from the hive mind society is slowly turning into. For example, they believe everybody else should play and love sports, looking down on those who, god forbid, don´t actually want to see 22 guys running after a spheric object.
I hope I made myself clear
JCS008
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Ok, this is getting a little ridiculous. Some people are upset that people look down on them for not liking sports, but aren't you doing the same thing while saying sports are pointless and people who enjoy them are followers? I love playing and watching sports because its entertaining, it's something I've grown up doing and have had some fine memories with them. Just like in every intereste group, there are meatheads here who don't know how to conduct themselves properly. Let's not be hypocrites and classify someone in a group. I'm sure it bothers you when people do it to you, so why do it to someone else. That makes you no better. And for the record, I enjoy beer also. Not because I'm trying to be cool or "manly" but because I actually, you know, enjoy the taste.
Yeah that is fine, but its the ones who do it only to fit in, and many men do this. Ive used to drink before and I did play and talk sports too. Its jsut I never did it as a way to fit in. But really this topic was about how men like to whistle at women and blurt out offensive speech.
JCS008
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Ok, to address men who whistle and yell obscene things at women. I'm embarassed and annoyed at them. It's just so immature, classless and down right rude. Unfortunately, I think that's a lost cause. You can stand on your soapbox all day yelling how men who do that are pigs (they are), but no one will listen to a message that they don't want to. It seems that most men on these forums are against that type of behavior to begin with and don't really condone it at all. Not to mention the female population strongly is against it as well. While, its great to vent and everyone is entitled to start threads about issues that bother them, but in the end you're preaching to the choir.
haha yes punk u r right... remember the beer thing was just a side note and I don't mind guys that drink beer I just don't like when they say stupid stuff about what other people r drinking, for instance ur a pussy for drinking a "girly"drink. Also I never said anything about people in sports I used to be very active in sports and think its a great convo starter if ur into them... everyone has there own interests and its too bad that these interests come with stereotypes that cause people to hate and judge others.
RedRibbons
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I love that you guys are ranting about piggish men. ...I can't stand them either. I hate the show off games, the "look at me, I'm so tough" attitude, over-confidence/big egos, pervertedness.. etc. It's not attractive whatsoever.
Sorry, I just wanted to add: I do not agree that men who play sports and stuff are pigs. I think men who are pigs are pigs, regardless of what they do as past-times.. For instance, I knew a guy who loved to do embroidery, and he was a pig. ::
...I can't stand them either. I hate the show off games, the "look at me, I'm so tough" attitude, over-confidence/big egos, pervertedness.. etc. It's not attractive whatsoever.Sorry, I just wanted to add: I do not agree that men who play sports and stuff are pigs. I think men who are pigs are pigs, regardless of what they do as past-times.. For instance, I knew a guy who loved to do embroidery, and he was a pig. :
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Flowers-Of-Bloom
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Thankfully I do not assoicate with these types of men. I have seen them and heard of them, but I always like to keep a wide berth between myself and those types.
I do have some lovely male friends who are very decent.
I do have some lovely male friends who are very decent.
Reiji Moritsugu
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Sort of how you are talking about how ridicoulous it is to see 22 guys running after a spheric object. Well so its ok for you not to like those type things but you get mad because people dont like the same things as you? Thats a little absurd!
I hope i made myself clear
It seems I was the one who didn´t make himself clear, for I don´t give an absolute damn about whether people like the same stuff I do. As long as it doesn´t affect me / people I care about, they can love jumping from cliffs as far as I am concerned. What I am mad about is the fact that actually those people are who cannot stand other people liking stuff that is different from what they like, and many things are looked down on by society JUST because they are not what everybody else does, while things such as sports are put on a pedestal just because it is what a major percentage of the population likes. Not liking sports does not make me a better person by any means, but by the same logic liking them doesn´t make anyone a better person either. Yet those types of people are actually seen and treated as better people, again because of certain things being liked by most people.
And yes, you made yourself quite clear by the way
recluse
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I hate those type of men. And the worst thing about them is that they really believe that they are god's gift to women! I've worked with many who are that way! They also like to try and make other men feel weak by putting them down. These are the type of guys who brag about how much they can drink, how much they can bench press, and how many women they claim to have slept with.......................Sad!