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So, as i have been feeling better, i have been thinking about how there are sooooo many girls in my school who are looking for good guys, but just can't seem to find them. THEN, i thought, well i know soooooo many guys in my school alone who are looking for good girls...
Well, this is where i am confused. I feel like it is very rare for a girl to approach a guy she is interested in, and this makes for an infinite amount of failed meetings between a man and woman who are interested in eachother.
And, i feel that the few girls who do approach guys and talk to them are either in a relationship, not many guys types, or have been with a lot of guys(just my opinion, sorry if its harsh).
So, i would love to hear some suggestions. WHY is 99% of the burden on meeting girls lay in the lap of the males? Did it used to be this way 50 years ago also? 100 years? 1000 years? Or, are us guys just so shy and into our video games and pornography now that we don't care about approaching girls?
Well, this is where i am confused. I feel like it is very rare for a girl to approach a guy she is interested in, and this makes for an infinite amount of failed meetings between a man and woman who are interested in eachother.
And, i feel that the few girls who do approach guys and talk to them are either in a relationship, not many guys types, or have been with a lot of guys(just my opinion, sorry if its harsh).
So, i would love to hear some suggestions. WHY is 99% of the burden on meeting girls lay in the lap of the males? Did it used to be this way 50 years ago also? 100 years? 1000 years? Or, are us guys just so shy and into our video games and pornography now that we don't care about approaching girls?