What is so different about you?

da_illest101

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What is it about yourself that you think others don't/ won't like.

for me:

Most of the time i'm negative
most of the time I prefer to be alone
not very out going or alive, i usually prefer to stay home
I'm kinda reserved
My likes/ opinion is usually different then most people/ society norm
If I'm not comfortable I'm very quiet

that's all I can think of. Before I used to hide who I was but not anymore ( well to a certain limit) **** anyone who don't like me for who i'm :D
 

3lefts

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What I think people won't like about me?
Everything about my past. There are things that I know and things that I've seen that I shouldn't of.
 

Kristina223

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Pretty much the same. I am very negative and after a few "neutral" conversation topics I get very pessimistic, all I can talk about is how everything sucks. People usually hate that, that's why the only classmate I kind of get along with and can keep up a conversation is the one who is pretty much the same ... depressed and miserable (with the exception she doesn't have social anxiety). So yeah, my negativity is the main problem. But people only notice it if I actually talk ... which doesn't happen often. So the second thing they don't like is the fact I don't talk. They think I'm boring and therefore not fun to hang out with ... I am though, I have no idea what to talk about with another human being.
 

punklove

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I guess I'm just interested in things most people wouldn't be interested in.
I'm very rarely comfortable in my own skin.
I don't like the way I look.
 

EscapeArtist

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The exact same reasons you posted
Negativity
Opinions greatly differ from those of society, and especially from those of my age group!
I think the main one :
I take life way too seriously
I don't want to, but I don't know how not to..growing up in a family where laughter was only existent when it was at people =/
 

Forgotten-Children

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Hmm.. Well these things I know because people actually TOLD me about it...

-Alot of people think I'm ugly and actually said it to my face.

-My hygiene isn't the greatest but that's only because people treated me like crap when I was younger so I was at the point where I said "Why should I bother if know one will like me when clean anyway?" I'm trying to get better, but I'm still not at the point of cleanliness that I should be. It just, this in particular hurt the most because I took it very offensivly whenever the teachers told me to wash up because I felt llike I was being picked on by them because my self-esteem was so low.

-I'm obsessive about things that are "only for kids". I was labeled the Pokemon girl around school and no one liked me for what I liked. But I couldn't help to be the was that I was because I have Asperger Syndrome. My disorder MAKES me obsessive.

-I was considered weird whenever I started to pace in the gym in order to think about what I should write in my fan fictions or just to imagine what'll happen in the future after my school years. This is another symptom from my AS. I have to do things repetitively otherwise my mind will LITERALLY go black for a few seconds until I snap back to reality.

-I never really talked at all at school unless talked to and it only had to be about stuff I knew about which was little from the teen-craise.

I could go on, but I think that's enough. Really the ONLY thing that the classmates could ever say that they liked me for was my artwork, and the only reason I say that is when two girls came over to me who I thought hated my guts (probably still do), asked me to draw a penis (yeah yeah, I know it's not appropriate for school, but I didn't really care because if we could have a day in Health class about the "Birds and the Bees" one, chibi pener isn't gonna hurt anything.)

The fact that I had a small group of people who said they'd be my school buds during those years, I think, is only because I can draw somewhat decently. I think they befriended me out of pitty... That's sad. But now I don't see them anymore. So... No more real life friends unless you count my little sister's buds, but they're more like little sisters to be because I'm known as "Sissy" to all of them. :/
 

Snowdrop

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-My negativity/judgmental
-Shyness/reservedness/anti-social attitude
-The fact that I dislike myself, comes across as moaning I think
-I just don't have much to say and even when I do it's not very exciting
-I'm awkward and uncaring towards others most of the time

I could probably think of more...
 

Graeme1988

Hie yer hence from me heath!
Most of the time I'm pessimistic
I'm overly sensitive
I'm not very self-confident
I'm not that outgoing, housebound for the most part
I can be very sarcastic at times
I can barely hold a conversation
 

Kat

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I put up barriers so people can’t get close to me
I don’t like much about myself so it is hard to expose what you don’t like
I am pretty obsessive about my appearance it may come across as vain, but I really don’t like the way I look.

I don’t like to share drinks, I don’t mind sharing but not when it has saliva or unwashed hands on it. Some people take that as an offence when I won’t always accept things that they have touched or eaten.

It’s hard for me to read people. I’m sensitive and it becomes heightened in social situations because of the stress there have been moments where I have felt like breaking down and crying. Sometimes it can be hard to concentrate and understand what people say and to decipher if they are just joking or being attacking.

When ever I do things out of my comfort zone like leaving my bedroom or the house it can come across like it’s a chore which really it is but the demeanor it projects offends some people.

I’m a homebody I think that’s ok as long as you can do the things you need to, to get by in life.
 

KiaKaha

Banned
Im kind of skinny
I am bald
I dont like the way I look and feel ugly
I walk funny
I am negative
quiet/nervous/lack confidence
I get the feeling that most people think I am just a dropkick loser and not worth dealing with.
 
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