A lady whose smart, out going, educated, intelliegent, aggressive (no-nonsense type) but not snobbish and self centred... (i've seen girls who are aggressive and independent) but at the same time they are arrogant and mean as well which can be a real turn-off... A lady who can ease my worries, release my stress, and erase my social anxiety bit by bit.... I'd preferably like someone older whose more confident than a younger woman cos of more experience with life... She could turn me from a real man from an insecure and confused lil guy....