Agent_Violet
Well-known member
I want to know what we want in love. Do you think SA plays a role in your needs when it comes to love?
I prefer someone who shares EVERYTHING about themselves with me without holding back just because they're afraid of being judged or disliked.
I need honesty.
i need someone who gives me the same amount of respect I give to them.
I need someone who can learn and grow with me instead of being sullen and sulky when I progress in mind and spirit ahead of them.
I need someone who can be deep with meaning but also someone who knows when to be funny.
I need loyalty...someone who doesn't throw me under the bus just because they want to look good. I want someone who isn't afraid to stand up to me and tell me when I'm being a jerk.
I need someone who will talk things out with me instead of avoiding conflict.
I need someone who will put our relationship first above all other things.
I need someone who understands it's not the quanitity of time spent...it's quality of time spent.
I've found most of these qualities in my husband but as time goes by, he slips further and further into being someone else and he's losing many of the qualities i value.
But that's not the point of the post...point of the post is finding out EXACTLY what attracts you to a man other than physical or monetary things.
leave physical out of it bc that's such a changeable thing...I want to know about the inside stuff.
What does it take for a man to get your attention?
do you prefer the ' in your face' uber masculine approach??
do you prefer the softer spoken gentleman who does little things to grab your attention?
I prefer someone who shares EVERYTHING about themselves with me without holding back just because they're afraid of being judged or disliked.
I need honesty.
i need someone who gives me the same amount of respect I give to them.
I need someone who can learn and grow with me instead of being sullen and sulky when I progress in mind and spirit ahead of them.
I need someone who can be deep with meaning but also someone who knows when to be funny.
I need loyalty...someone who doesn't throw me under the bus just because they want to look good. I want someone who isn't afraid to stand up to me and tell me when I'm being a jerk.
I need someone who will talk things out with me instead of avoiding conflict.
I need someone who will put our relationship first above all other things.
I need someone who understands it's not the quanitity of time spent...it's quality of time spent.
I've found most of these qualities in my husband but as time goes by, he slips further and further into being someone else and he's losing many of the qualities i value.
But that's not the point of the post...point of the post is finding out EXACTLY what attracts you to a man other than physical or monetary things.
leave physical out of it bc that's such a changeable thing...I want to know about the inside stuff.
What does it take for a man to get your attention?
do you prefer the ' in your face' uber masculine approach??
do you prefer the softer spoken gentleman who does little things to grab your attention?