"you have an attitude problem" my immdediate thought response "bugger off already"
note: its a very general and arrogant claim to make based on an assumption.
"do you want to be alone forever whilst having a mediocre life" ... my response " completely unhelpful and using guilt trips to somehow trigger a shock in me, advice lacks empathy and people skills.
"pull your finger out" ...again an arrogant and annoying phrase people use to make them seem superior in some way, they are saying you are not up to their supposed standards which they see as gospel.
"you are so quiet today" ...my thoughts "stating the obvious, i don't actually know you and you dont make much effort to talk to me anyway so why do you even care to inform me about my manerisms which only leads to an awkward outcome,
i could jump up and down, do a dance while singing karaoke, would you then inform me that i am being "loud and chirpy", my response should be "do you think before you open your mouth" ...