Huh? What do people ask? And how is it obvious that someone is single? Apart from that, your love life is nobody's business.
Valentine's Day doesn't have to be depressing and miserable!
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oh no, i totally forgot it's valentine's day next month. I have to keep myself very busy and try not to think about it to much.
I have never had a girlfriend in my entire life, i still don't have one though. Valentine's Day was always the day in which my depression was just unbearable. I can't stand that feeling that other people are celebrating it with their loved ones while i am dieing from loneliness. I am never going to look forward to this day. I will be very suicidal that day so better keep away from me on that particular day 
shore_of_glass
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well, the questions are more from familiy, always nosing around <.< but I understand them, kinda...
but from everyone, I get those looks when Valentine's Day is being discussed.
Plus, I believe my appearance shows that there's a high probability that I don't have a girlfriend: depressed or moody or bored and always distant...
Or am I just being paranoid?
If Christmas and New Years doesn't kill you, Valentine's Day is always right there waiting!
You are clearly being paranoid. At university, my love life has never been a topic of discussion. Nobody ever goes that deeply into his/her private life. Not even in private/non-professional conversations. Because that's just nobody's business, and all people (I know) know that. It's quite common sense.
shore_of_glass
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yeah well, I don't ever talk about that either nor people talk with me about it, but I still get affected. Paranoia it is then rofl, mix a bit of SA and I come out, baked and burned <.<
evil feline space cadet
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Well said! I brought it up cause its the one time of the year i dread - i just happened to realise its a month away!
Nicholas
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Then why are you guys so worried about it? It's still the same, same as every year. And you're not going to die. Are you going to feel more alone? Well, it's just a feeling, because you'll be as alone as every other day. Will it remind you you don't have a girlfriend? Well, you don't have one right now either. And Valentine's stinking day is not going to change anything in your life.
Forget about it. You would hate it anyway, because it's stupid anyway.
Forget about it. You would hate it anyway, because it's stupid anyway.
Yes, it becomes less and less important the longer you are with someone. It's recognizing the love you have for each other every day that really counts.
That being said...I'd be very upset if hubby didn't get me flowers on valentine's day :
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Juggalo
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I've a great idea. Why not save up loadsa money just to treat ourselves?!
I'm tryin' to think of what to treat myself to. I'm thinking massage, cheap cruise (if possible) or a trip to London or something!
If not, there's nothing a few good happy movies, a clean room, incense, roses and a few candles can't sort! (God I'm such a woman!) Maybe find a Buddhist meditation center that's open on Sundays (great for anxiety I've heard).. Sure if you aint got another half - be your own other half!!
You can't "treat yourself" when you're dirt poor. :
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Juggalo
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You're not real. Merely an undigested bit of beef, a blot of mustard, a crumb of cheese, a fragment of an underdone potato. There's more of gravy than of grave about you!
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I'm with you on this one.
You're not real. Merely an undigested bit of beef, a blot of mustard, a crumb of cheese, a fragment of an underdone potato. There's more of gravy than of grave about you!
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Haha! Love it! I like the Muppet version of the movie
evil feline space cadet
Banned
You can't "treat yourself" when you're dirt poor. :
I pretty much am!!
Which is why I'm saving up. Sure even a walk somewhere really nice with a pair of headphones would do the job!
