Unemployment

OceanMist

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I don't blame her for feeling like that. I was devastated after being rejected at 30 jobs in a row. It gets to a point where the person will lose so much confidence that they don't even want to try anymore and it seems like they'll never find a job.

That thing said she even tried mcdonalds. I can relate with that too because I remember getting rejected from 3 different mcdonalds and thinking, if I can't get a job there, where can i get a job?

I may have to travel that path again as I am going to need another job eventually.
 
Im 23 and never have had a paid job i am just doing so called work tasters. Where the employer says there is a chance of work but in reality they just want free labour :mad::mad::mad::mad:
 
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recluse

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recluse, do you have any advice on job searching and where to look? (I think you're from the uk too?) I've been signing on for a while now and i'm more desperate to get off it than ever since they're sending me to a private firm. I'm bricking it at the thought of having to do groupwork or role play. I've not even been getting interviews so any tips are appreciated!

I'm afraid you're asking the wrong person. I mostly look through job search sites, but if you know people you can ask to enquire in their work places that helps.
 

Social_Monstrosity

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I've actually never had a job... I would love one where I have little to no interaction with people but it's so frustrating.

I have zero credentials so finding a job that isn't retail/fast food is beyond difficult. Not to mention, nobody wants a nervous wreck working for them.
 

recluse

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I've actually never had a job... I would love one where I have little to no interaction with people but it's so frustrating.

I have zero credentials so finding a job that isn't retail/fast food is beyond difficult. Not to mention, nobody wants a nervous wreck working for them.

Thing is i know i am a good worker just that when i am put with other people i feel so nervous and worry they are watching me, and judging me i mess up.

In my ideal world i would be working alone.
 

Etbow23

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I would rather be dead than be stuck in a degrading job. There are other ways to feel worth. To me, volunteering in a worthwhile cause is more rewarding.

Yeah, but some people have to make money somehow. I don't do it to feel worth, I do it so I can have a car and put gas in it and these types of things. Although I've hated all the jobs I've ever had, I think they've taught me a lot of things. I'm young-21-and still chipping away at a college degree. I've always worked though, ever since I was 16, usually working 20-30 hours a week while in school. I chose to do this because my mother was very cheap with me and didn't have so much money herself and didn't buy me that much. Now i'm trying to save so I can transfer from community college to go to a small university in Texas I want to go to.
 
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Etbow23

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I'm going to be honest, You have no idea how much I think of the idea of becoming a hermit because I feel like it's just the way to survive anymore. I mean, think about it... I hate my customer service jobs (I have two. One at a closing blockbuster and a radioshack where you have to sell your ass off just to make a small profit). So instead of making money, what if I just... lived alone... in the mountains? I hate people enough already. I'm not bad with a bow, I have the patience for fishing, I can light a fire, I know how to grow stuff and I'm a pretty decent carpenter.

I feel like it would be a good way to just... disappear from the world. Noone can really track you. Noone could find you. I honestly wonder if I could do it.

I want to be a hermit too. That's like my secret dream. I guess i don't have the courage to do it though.
 

dancingintherain

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I've been unemployed since September. I only send my CV's on websites cos I'm terrified to phone for a job or hand in an application. Just too much for me.
And I guess my chances of getting a job is limiting because my CV is only directed to creative jobs - and there's not very many...
 

MikeyC

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Does anyone else get annoyed how the government and popular media brush things like unemployment under the carpet? All the media ever reports on are celebrities and half naked women.
Unemployment does get some coverage but not a lot. I think it'll be an even bigger problem in coming generations.
 

Etbow23

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That is a very sad story, and I can understand her self-esteem being shot after so many rejections. Unfortunately I think there's going to be more stories like this.

For my generation it seems so tough. The college I want to transfer to this fall cost almost $30,000 a year, and I make what, $8 an hour? Nowadays they make you fill out endless personality tests and math tests for minimum wage clerk jobs and run credit checks on you. It's unbelievable. There was even one job application I looked at the other day that said you had to pay $5 to apply. Huh?

Then the colleges expect you to work free internships for some degree programs and such.

Eh anyways, enough for my rant. The story is very sad, and I know how she feels. I had one question though--she was only 21 and left college two years ago? Did she drop out at 19 or what? I can't believe she got a 4 year degree in that time, but maybe it's different in that country I don't know.
 

MikeyC

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For my generation it seems so tough. The college I want to transfer to this fall cost almost $30,000 a year, and I make what, $8 an hour? Nowadays they make you fill out endless personality tests and math tests for minimum wage clerk jobs and run credit checks on you. It's unbelievable. There was even one job application I looked at the other day that said you had to pay $5 to apply. Huh?

Then the colleges expect you to work free internships for some degree programs and such.
Yeah, this is all really bad. $5 to apply for a job? That's criminal.
 

recluse

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I've just had a call from a company i applied for. It's a call centre job. I've got an interview next Weds.....I feel sick!:eek:
 

ohheybbyitscorixx

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Ahh, my first job was alright. I worked in a college cafeteria. Towards the end of my 8 month employment with them, my boss would yell at me too much (and not yell at the other employees who would be high at work, start FIGHTS at work, scream, break things like 5 year olds). I ended up having an ankle surgery and had to quit one day because I was stressed and not done with physical therapy so it hurt to walk on it really bad. Next, I worked as a janitor for a nursing home for 2 months. They wouldn't let you have more than 30 hours a week, but I could barely even do that anyways. My foot was in so much pain (still haven't finished physical therapy...) and I would literally cry due to the pain. I hated it because people gossiped too much, I had only a very limited time to clean all of these rooms (which let me tell you...NO one gets done). And then when you don't get it done, you are in trouble. I was also on one of the worst floors no one would take. Nurses would try and hide gloves and then try and get you fired if they found it and you didn't pick it up... I left and gave them a weeks notice and my boss yelled at me for not giving her a 3 weeks notice and I said oh well. Third job...oh god. I'm a caregiver and the agency I work for doesn't pay me minimum wage like they are supposed to. I deal with a lot of racist, bitter, mean old people. I have been punched, kicked, had my clothes torn, and broke down at work. I hurt my forearms at work because a daughter in law expected me to take her 250+ pound mother in law down a very steep ramp alone and we both almost fell. Even worse, is I do "live-in" work...where you live with your client for days at a time and cannot leave and get no sleep. I'm quitting that job. The good news is due to my mental diagnosises, I can go to college for free. But only after I'm 24. Because my family won't help me, and they make WAY too much money for financial aid. And even though I have been on my own since I was 18, they still consider your parents income unless you are married, have a baby, or were in foster care. My only hope is to somehow prove it's bad for me to talk to my mother emotionally (which I can) but that might be too stressful. So, for now, I am unemployed again. I'm thinking about just trying to get a job at walmart or something because honestly, after my last jobs, it's probably a walk in the park. And I'd get to meet people and be social! But, unfortunately, it's hard to even get THAT job in Los Angeles. They want you to have 1-3 years of experience....for a cashier job. I mean, my god.....hah!
 

MikeyC

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Wow, Cori, you've been through quite a lot in your employment history. It sucks that every job you've had has been tough for one reason or another. It's a volatile working world out there.
 

ohheybbyitscorixx

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Wow, Cori, you've been through quite a lot in your employment history. It sucks that every job you've had has been tough for one reason or another. It's a volatile working world out there.

I guess I do love working. It gives me a feeling of independence. I pretty much was taking any job I could find. Unfortunately, I have severe depression so keeping a job is the problem. But being a caregiver is just something I cannot do. I have so much respect for these people who work 7 days a week without a day off just to take care of these old people. Not all of them are bad, and the ones that are it usually isn't their fault. A lot of them have mental problems just like me! However, I cannot take care of someone's basic needs when I am in decline with my own. I got my CNA certification and out here in LA there is a surplus of CNAs and RNs. A lot of CNAs work for min wage with no benefits and get treated like crap. Nursing homes are bad in Cali (don't retire here! :p) I do not mind doing dirty jobs (cleaning up pee, changing people, smelling bad things) it's just usually people yelling at me I can't take. I need to learn to be assertive. And also..how to do interviews without sweating profusely and not being able to make eye contact :p It's kind of odd because I'm 20 and I actually ENJOY working....and when I see people working and not enjoying their jobs (which is fine) or they are just plain bad at them...I wonder how, as enthusiastic and a good worker as I am, can I manage to not find a job.
 

MikeyC

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I guess I do love working. It gives me a feeling of independence. I pretty much was taking any job I could find. Unfortunately, I have severe depression so keeping a job is the problem. But being a caregiver is just something I cannot do. I have so much respect for these people who work 7 days a week without a day off just to take care of these old people. Not all of them are bad, and the ones that are it usually isn't their fault. A lot of them have mental problems just like me! However, I cannot take care of someone's basic needs when I am in decline with my own. I got my CNA certification and out here in LA there is a surplus of CNAs and RNs. A lot of CNAs work for min wage with no benefits and get treated like crap. Nursing homes are bad in Cali (don't retire here! :p) I do not mind doing dirty jobs (cleaning up pee, changing people, smelling bad things) it's just usually people yelling at me I can't take. I need to learn to be assertive. And also..how to do interviews without sweating profusely and not being able to make eye contact :p It's kind of odd because I'm 20 and I actually ENJOY working....and when I see people working and not enjoying their jobs (which is fine) or they are just plain bad at them...I wonder how, as enthusiastic and a good worker as I am, can I manage to not find a job.
To answer your last question first, some people are just lucky, or they know someone. It's good that you enjoy working and you like the independence, so you'll be a great asset to any employer. Unfortunately, you've had some bad experiences which does make it more difficult. Maybe you can be a carer in the future.

Severe depression is awful, and that would be a hindrance, but don't forget you've managed to get 3 jobs in the past and you're only 20, so you will definitely get some more in the future. I guarantee it. Good luck in your search. :)
 

me-tan

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Anyone else unemployed and feel completely lost?

I was laid off from my clerk job at the end of last year because basically I was "too quiet" (SA) although I was there for 4 months.

I've recently been trying to get my previous job before the clerk job at Mcdonald's back that I left after 4 years. I got along with pretty much everyone that I worked with, the only hiccup I had was with the old head manager there and he was recently demoted and left that restaurant. I'll admit though, that nearing the end I wasn't happy being there.

I'm from a fairly small town and the jobs are pretty much slim-pickings. I just don't want to make a massive commute for a wage that I would barely be able to live off of in the first place.

I guess I just find myself disillusioned that I expected my time there to actually be worth something and ashamed that I find myself having to basically be begging just to get a job to be flipping patties again.

I'm technically unemployed right now. I dont really bother with traditional work, I rather be my own boss, it works better for me and I'm so much happier. Me and my friend run our own business and we pretty much tell each other what to do.

Though most of the time he's telling me what to do, I pretty much assigned him the boss job title, though I do visit him and evaluate his work and he also does the same and lights a fire under my butt since sometimes, which is nice... he does it in such a friendly and motivating way.
 

MikeyC

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I'm technically unemployed right now. I dont really bother with traditional work, I rather be my own boss, it works better for me and I'm so much happier. Me and my friend run our own business and we pretty much tell each other what to do.

Though most of the time he's telling me what to do, I pretty much assigned him the boss job title, though I do visit him and evaluate his work and he also does the same and lights a fire under my butt since sometimes, which is nice... he does it in such a friendly and motivating way.
Interesting. What do you do?
 

Iluv

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I have a job and I hate it. I'm always being walked all over by customers and by my co-workers. I want to go back to work for my best friend but I can't because he lives in a different city and I have to be 19 to serve alcohol.
::(:
 
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