CherryPepper
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I had a crush on him before realizing that he is love shy. From friends, I found out he has very little experience with women, is a virgin (he's over 35), and a coworker that dated him said she had to make all the moves.
I flirted the best I could with him but we don't cross paths often (he's a distant coworker). After talking to my coworker, I finally realized that I had to be the one to ask him out. He was sort of wishywashy but we made a plan. When I realized that the original plan wouldn't work because of my work schedule, I let him know and he suggested an early dinner after work last week.
We talked a lot and laughed a lot and there weren't really any awkward silences. At the end he thanked me a couple times (I paid since I asked him out, he left tip) and he said he'd bring pictures of a project I asked to see.
Later that night he texted me saying thank you and sorry if he talked too much. I texted back that he didn't, that I liked hearing about his interests. I texted him a couple days later about something I found in my car and he had a cute/funny response. Then he texted me the next day saying Happy Easter. But he hasn't come to see me or contacted me since.
Most people say to let it go, the ball is in his court. But does that also apply to a love shy guy?
I flirted the best I could with him but we don't cross paths often (he's a distant coworker). After talking to my coworker, I finally realized that I had to be the one to ask him out. He was sort of wishywashy but we made a plan. When I realized that the original plan wouldn't work because of my work schedule, I let him know and he suggested an early dinner after work last week.
We talked a lot and laughed a lot and there weren't really any awkward silences. At the end he thanked me a couple times (I paid since I asked him out, he left tip) and he said he'd bring pictures of a project I asked to see.
Later that night he texted me saying thank you and sorry if he talked too much. I texted back that he didn't, that I liked hearing about his interests. I texted him a couple days later about something I found in my car and he had a cute/funny response. Then he texted me the next day saying Happy Easter. But he hasn't come to see me or contacted me since.
Most people say to let it go, the ball is in his court. But does that also apply to a love shy guy?