Josette
Well-known member
Anyone else feel like they've become too good at doing things alone?
I go to the movies a lot, out to eat, parks, museums, even vacation--alone. I've become good at (resigned?) to doing things alone instead of challenging myself to ask people to do stuff with me. It's too scary.
I remember trying in the past and it never worked out. Do people really just ask again and again and get used to a certain amount of YESes and NOes?
I have managed, against all odds, to make a few friends, but I am too chicken to even ask them to do things. I can sometimes manage--via email or text only--to ask if they want to go to lunch, but nothing more. Anything bigger is like I'm asking too much.
I go to the movies a lot, out to eat, parks, museums, even vacation--alone. I've become good at (resigned?) to doing things alone instead of challenging myself to ask people to do stuff with me. It's too scary.
I remember trying in the past and it never worked out. Do people really just ask again and again and get used to a certain amount of YESes and NOes?
I have managed, against all odds, to make a few friends, but I am too chicken to even ask them to do things. I can sometimes manage--via email or text only--to ask if they want to go to lunch, but nothing more. Anything bigger is like I'm asking too much.