reslo
Well-known member
Maybe I'm just lazy and it has nothing to do with being avoidant, but I can look around my room and find things I have never ended up completing... Maybe it's a fear of completion.
I have:
- a few rolls of film that need to be developed (at least 2 years old)
- a friend's yearbook from a couple years ago that I never returned (the friend still has mine too... I'm not sure what to do about it at this point.)
- at least a dozen books with bookmarks, read part way through (even books I like or want to read I have a hard time finishing) and probably 20 more that I own but have never even opened
- before I sold them, I didn't even watch dvds I liked that often
- items i promised I'd sell on ebay (some have been sitting around since february)
- a college application and at at least 4 job applications- all completely filled out have been sitting in a drawer for the past year
- a pamplet from the ymca I'd thought i'd read (it's been sitting a few months maybe a year)
- bath stuff I've never used
- the worst I'd say is I never emailed a friend back for no particular reason- i can't even bring myself to log into that email account- i feel bad- i emailed them all nice and they responded and then i never responded back... that was 2 or 3 years ago.
I also have a bank account I never closed.. haven't touched it in 2 1/2 years... haven't paid my taxes from last year- or even called to try and make a payment plan. everything tends to sit, just like me.
What do you have that you've left undone/never gotten around to?
I have:
- a few rolls of film that need to be developed (at least 2 years old)
- a friend's yearbook from a couple years ago that I never returned (the friend still has mine too... I'm not sure what to do about it at this point.)
- at least a dozen books with bookmarks, read part way through (even books I like or want to read I have a hard time finishing) and probably 20 more that I own but have never even opened
- before I sold them, I didn't even watch dvds I liked that often
- items i promised I'd sell on ebay (some have been sitting around since february)
- a college application and at at least 4 job applications- all completely filled out have been sitting in a drawer for the past year
- a pamplet from the ymca I'd thought i'd read (it's been sitting a few months maybe a year)
- bath stuff I've never used
- the worst I'd say is I never emailed a friend back for no particular reason- i can't even bring myself to log into that email account- i feel bad- i emailed them all nice and they responded and then i never responded back... that was 2 or 3 years ago.
I also have a bank account I never closed.. haven't touched it in 2 1/2 years... haven't paid my taxes from last year- or even called to try and make a payment plan. everything tends to sit, just like me.
What do you have that you've left undone/never gotten around to?