The negative thread

[hidwell]

There's a storm going on in my mind all the time that I don't always let out here. A possible thread I could start (I'm scared of starting threads, though :. But thanks to the both of you. It's a fight and there's no leader yet but I'm still fighting.

Your one of the biggest contributors to this site Mikey, if you want to start a thread please find the courage, your very well liked on this forum and its bound to be very successful.

 

[Ashiene]

Told myself I was not going to binge-eat today after a distressing situation, I failed- ate 2 bowls of curry chicken rice and 30 chicken wings and 10 chicken drumlets and 3 hashbrowns. Epic fail on my part.

 

[Nathália]

There's a storm going on in my mind all the time that I don't always let out here. A possible thread I could start (I'm scared of starting threads, though :. But thanks to the both of you. It's a fight and there's no leader yet but I'm still fighting.

Kia: best to be aware of those trucks so they don't slam into you!

I understand about threads. I blush at all of mines, I just hit submit to get it over with. If you want to try, I think you should. I get your feelings though.

 

[Nathália]

Told myself I was not going to binge-eat today after a distressing situation, I failed- ate 2 bowls of curry chicken rice and 30 chicken wings and 10 chicken drumlets and 3 hashbrowns. Epic fail on my part.

I'm sorry. Have you ever tried drinking more fluids before you eat? When you drink plenty water before you eat, you get a full stomach faster. I hope you can find a solution to your problem.

 

[MikeyC]

Your one of the biggest contributors to this site Mikey, if you want to start a thread please find the courage, your very well liked on this forum and its bound to be very successful.

Thank you, hidwell. I hope you're right.

 

[Ashiene]

I'm sorry. Have you ever tried drinking more fluids before you eat? When you drink plenty water before you eat, you get a full stomach faster. I hope you can find a solution to your problem.

I tried drinking lots of water but it doesn't help. The problem is not about being full or not. I just use binge-eating to cope with emotional distress even if I am not hungry I still overeat even if I am full. It is hard to fight the urge.

 

[1BlackSheep]

One of my foster kittens died last Thursday. It doesn't get much worse than that.

Oh no! So sorry - I know how much it hurts. ::

 

[1BlackSheep]

There's a storm going on in my mind all the time that I don't always let out here. A possible thread I could start (I'm scared of starting threads, though :. But thanks to the both of you. It's a fight and there's no leader yet but I'm still fighting.

Awwww - big hug! We <3 you!!!

 

[Nathália]

I tried drinking lots of water but it doesn't help. The problem is not about being full or not. I just use binge-eating to cope with emotional distress even if I am not hungry I still overeat even if I am full. It is hard to fight the urge.

Oh okay, I understand. I get how differently people can take emotional distress, because I don't eat in certain emotional periods and I can have random out breaks where I feel like I have to snack on everything non stop. It is hard.

 

[MikeyC]

Awwww - big hug! We <3 you!!!

Aw, thanks. I <3 you, too.

 

[Nathália]

Hmm the "negative" thread.
Okay. I feel like a scrub. right now

I don't have a car and nor do I have a cellphone.
I live in the middle of suburbia and not out in the city, so it's hard to get to places.
I'm wondering how am I going to make a friend, because I have phone anxiety and no cell phone.

I don't want to be someones dead-weight.
It is embarrassing to have my mother drive me around because she is so all up in my business. She doesn't know when she has to step out of things.

Do your parents ever yell across places all the time to say your name?
I can hear now embarrassing me. Rhondaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!! Rhondaaaaa!!!!!!!
Ayo iz dis yo frien? Omg HIiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii. * (turns off the cuncheee voice and starts long conversation with my friend)

Just stop (lol) please stop it mother.



Oh dear.....teddy bear!! You embarrass me to death. I wonder how to make friends.

I want to feel like I'm an adult and not like I'm 12. I've talked to her about this, I just can't. It really makes me feel less of myself.

 

[Srijita52]

Hmm the "negative" thread.
Okay. I feel like a scrub. right now

I don't have a car and nor do I have a cellphone.
I live in the middle of suburbia and not out in the city, so it's hard to get to places.
I'm wondering how am I going to make a friend, because I have phone anxiety and no cell phone.

I don't want to be someones dead-weight.
It is embarrassing to have my mother drive me around because she is so all up in my business. She doesn't know when she has to step out of things.

Do your parents ever yell across places all the time to say your name?
I can hear now embarrassing me. Rhondaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!! Rhondaaaaa!!!!!!!
Ayo iz dis yo frien? Omg HIiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii. * (turns off the cuncheee voice and starts long conversation with my friend)

Just stop (lol) please stop it mother.



Oh dear.....teddy bear!! You embarrass me to death. I wonder how to make friends.

I want to feel like I'm an adult and not like I'm 12. I've talked to her about this, I just can't. It really makes me feel less of myself.

I'm sorry Beleza.

 

[Srijita52]

This is a conversation I had with my aunt a few months ago..

Me: Is beauty more important or talent?


Aunt: When you first meet someone you notice their looks but as you get to know them you start noticing their talent.


Me: Oh okay.


Aunt: But you don't have to worry about it?


Me: Why?


Aunt: Because you have none.


Me: Oh.

After a long pause,


Aunt: Are you upset hon, I was just telling you the truth and not trying to be fake. Its okay you know, not everyone is same.

 

[Nathália]

This is a conversation I had with my aunt a few months ago..

Me: Is beauty more important or talent?


Aunt: When you first meet someone you notice their looks but as you get to know them you start noticing their talent.


Me: Oh okay.


Aunt: But you don't have to worry about it?


Me: Why?


Aunt: Because you have none.


Me: Oh.

After a long pause,


Aunt: Are you upset hon, I was just telling you the truth and not trying to be fake. Its okay you know, not everyone is same.

wowwwwwwwwwwwww. Srijita I'm very sorry!!

Even though she's your aunt, she may not know everything about you and the will power that you have. Everyone has some talent. Don't let her get you down.

 

[KiaKaha]

Just ignore that garbage Srijita. You have both looks and talent.
I see it all the time.

You're a total babe.
You have never ending compassion, kindness, intelligence and warmth.

Traits I regard very highly.

With all due respect, your aunt doesnt know what she is talking about.

 

[Srijita52]

Just ignore that garbage Srijita. You have both looks and talent.
I see it all the time.

You're a total babe.
You have never ending compassion, kindness, intelligence and warmth.

Traits I regard very highly.

With all due respect, your aunt doesnt know what she is talking about.

wowwwwwwwwwwwww. Srijita I'm very sorry!!

Even though she's your aunt, she may not know everything about you and the will power that you have. Everyone has some talent. Don't let her get you down.

Thank you both. You're very kind.

 

[MikeyC]

This is a conversation I had with my aunt a few months ago..

Me: Is beauty more important or talent?


Aunt: When you first meet someone you notice their looks but as you get to know them you start noticing their talent.


Me: Oh okay.


Aunt: But you don't have to worry about it?


Me: Why?


Aunt: Because you have none.


Me: Oh.

After a long pause,


Aunt: Are you upset hon, I was just telling you the truth and not trying to be fake. Its okay you know, not everyone is same.

That's really stupid of your aunt. You're fantastic in both ways.

 

[Srijita52]

Thanks Mikey.

 

[Pacific_Loner]

Everyone has some talent. Don't let her get you down.

Just ignore that garbage Srijita. You have both looks and talent.
I see it all the time.

You're a total babe.
You have never ending compassion, kindness, intelligence and warmth.

That's really stupid of your aunt. You're fantastic in both ways.

People... it's the NEGATIVE THREAD!! We're all ugly and talentless including her aunt

 

[Hoppy]

I also have family like that.

I have a talent to think of multiple ways of torturing them to death.